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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #30 on: April 03, 2007, 05:11:54 PM »
its good because it shows that you care about the person in other words jealousy, its bad if you keep doing it because in sometime the person would be really annoyed if you keep getting jealous over little things ne :D

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« Reply #31 on: April 03, 2007, 07:07:49 PM »
Look, girls just aren't happy with the boy they're involved with leaving them for someone else. If they were, monogomy would have never developed. Saying if they truly loved they would is a selfish excuse for pushing their feelings aside and putting the blame on them.

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #32 on: April 03, 2007, 09:53:13 PM »
sorry i think i should study about that more...  :(

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #33 on: April 04, 2007, 05:57:21 AM »
Do you have a significant other who is far from you? Or is this random? I mean... I know what it feels like to be lonely without anyone at all... but I don't think I'd ever feel that unless I missed someone I loved. ^^;;

You speak as if you don't have a significant other that's really far away from you.  Do you miss someone you love?  I wonder...


yeah right ::) but im still uncertain with my true feellings with any girl :P

dont worry, i've felt that before, but the girl who loves you from the bottom of her heart doesn't care who you love, she only wants you to be happy eventhough she'll hurt because of that.. that's the girl you really need i think...(according to my experience, since i was also indecissive)

Did you take that right out of an anime?


being selfish is sometimes good and sometimes bad it really depends on the situation ;)

Being selfish is sometimes good and sometimes bad.  It depends on the context and how you look at it.  For instance:

My boyfriend and I live thousands of miles away.  I'm in Ireland, he's in the states.  In order to compromise our relationship and make it work, we have become selfish.  He does his own thing and I do my own thing.  We look out for number 1 which is ourselves.  But it doesn't mean that we don't have a relationship.  It doesn't ruin our relationship (yet), but rather puts it on a temporary hold till we can see each other again.  We live our lives according to the place we're in.

Selfishness becomes bad when one or both become so consumed in what they want to do, that they don't think or consider the thoughts of their significant other.  That's selfish to a point where it's bad (at least in my opinion).  When it's at the point where you start questioning if he/she thinks of you or if he/she wants to talk to you or if he/she cares about you-that's when the other person is being selfish to the point where it's bad.

Like most things, there is no solid answer to whether or not selfishness is good or bad.  You determine that based on the situation you are presented with.

If my boyfriend and I were living together in the states in the same apartment and all he could do was what he wanted to do, then yeah, I would call that "bad" selfishness.  In our current case though, being selfish isn't so bad.

Those are just my thoughts.


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well does anybody gets this feeling when your alone in your room lying on your bed then suddenly your heart aches for no apparent reason and you feel like you just want to embrace somebody and just cry until you cant cry any more.

this is alway the felling i get when im alone

so does anybody feels this way???

I feel that way sometimes.  Probably a lot more than I should.
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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #34 on: April 04, 2007, 05:22:49 PM »
good analisis over the selfishness thing ;D and im still feeling that way cant seem to get rid of it

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #35 on: April 05, 2007, 12:36:28 AM »
i didnt take that out from anime ok!!  >:(
its my own experience...
and that girl is now my girlfriend..got it??

how could you say that??  :'(
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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #36 on: April 05, 2007, 05:45:02 AM »
that kind of selfishness is really not bad what ive been thinking is you only do what your partner tells you...

to kujosan:

mayve its just too unreal (but its not that i dont believe you)

to kite:

maybe its just you need someone who really cares for you...

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« Reply #37 on: April 05, 2007, 06:27:47 AM »
i guess your right ???

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #38 on: April 05, 2007, 06:29:54 AM »
no, its more likely absolutely right...

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #39 on: April 06, 2007, 04:48:31 AM »
maybe i need to find a girlfriend for my self....nah

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Re: anyone out there who feels this...
« Reply #40 on: April 06, 2007, 06:50:28 AM »
yes you do

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« Reply #41 on: April 06, 2007, 06:51:47 AM »
you really do have to find girlfriend kite, its for your own sake... ;D

its not good to always look behind.. ;)
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« Reply #42 on: April 06, 2007, 06:53:18 AM »
but that promise is what keeps him

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« Reply #43 on: April 06, 2007, 06:54:48 AM »
promise?? yes it really does keep him, but i think its not good for him
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« Reply #44 on: April 06, 2007, 06:56:26 AM »
well let him decide for it

 

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