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Title: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on November 21, 2004, 10:00:12 AM
Post your love problems here.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on November 21, 2004, 02:17:47 PM
LOL!!!! LOVE STICKY!!!!

But.. i can't help but wonder. if.. i really like this 19 year old that i'm talking to. I mean. He called me cute.. and ext. but... i think i'm fallling in love with him. But. thats bad. he's 19.. and i'm 13!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on November 21, 2004, 04:45:29 PM
ummm...you like him because he called you cute?

Cheezus...no offense, but I find that kind of pathetic
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on November 21, 2004, 04:49:14 PM
I thought you currently like a girl...

And why am I not surprised that Angel is the first to reply to this thread?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Miroku the Monk :D on November 21, 2004, 04:59:16 PM
I thought you currently like a girl...

And why am I not surprised that Angel is the first to reply to this thread?

Jeez, Danielle it's love at first sight, don't be so condescending   :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on November 21, 2004, 05:01:21 PM
Not her sight's first love, though.  Or last.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on November 22, 2004, 09:31:31 AM
LOL!!!! LOVE STICKY!!!!

But.. i can't help but wonder. if.. i really like this 19 year old that i'm talking to. I mean. He called me cute.. and ext. but... i think i'm fallling in love with him. But. thats bad. he's 19.. and i'm 13!!

he's 19... i think your feelings will be VERY unreciprocated.
and if he is interested in you (in the way that i'm suggesting), you should call the cops...
/cough lolicon
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 22, 2004, 10:27:07 AM
All I'm going to say is be carefull and dont ever meet up w/ him if he wants to... And I'm sure this is just a thing that will pass over. I know I have thought I was falling in love w/ someone and a day or two later sometimes even a week later I don't like them anymore in that way.  So just becarefull.... all he could want is to have sex and leave you.. never to talk to you again... he may say he would never do that.. but trust me there are alot of guys like that you cant trust everyone you meet.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on November 22, 2004, 12:12:35 PM
All I'm going to say is be carefull and dont ever meet up w/ him if he wants to... And I'm sure this is just a thing that will pass over. I know I have thought I was falling in love w/ someone and a day or two later sometimes even a week later I don't like them anymore in that way.  So just becarefull.... all he could want is to have sex and leave you.. never to talk to you again... he may say he would never do that.. but trust me there are alot of guys like that you cant trust everyone you meet.

like i said, dial '911' if he ever tries to make a move.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PrinJess on November 22, 2004, 03:12:58 PM
LOL!!!! LOVE STICKY!!!!

But.. i can't help but wonder. if.. i really like this 19 year old that i'm talking to. I mean. He called me cute.. and ext. but... i think i'm fallling in love with him. But. thats bad. he's 19.. and i'm 13!!

Wow. That's all I have to say.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 22, 2004, 06:10:15 PM
All I'm going to say is be carefull and dont ever meet up w/ him if he wants to... And I'm sure this is just a thing that will pass over. I know I have thought I was falling in love w/ someone and a day or two later sometimes even a week later I don't like them anymore in that way.  So just becarefull.... all he could want is to have sex and leave you.. never to talk to you again... he may say he would never do that.. but trust me there are alot of guys like that you cant trust everyone you meet.

like i said, dial '911' if he ever tries to make a move.
like i said dont meet up w/ him.


Well my love problem is this...

Okay me and my friend Josh made up after getting in a fight and well hmmm... how to put this... Okay we do this thing where we ask each other questions and stuff like that.. and I asked if he would date a girly girl or a tomboy.. and he said can it be fifty fifty? and IM like sure.. and then I bleched really loud and said excuse me and he called me a girly girl (which affends me cause I am no girly girl.) and sat night I told him me and my friend and her friend and I was acting like a fan girl cause I was all hyper and happy and  umm we were saying like Bakura was hot and Hiei was hot and Yoko was hot too and like I told him that and I also told him that I painted my nails a hot pink cause I thought I had fingernail polish remover and turns out I didnt so now IM stuck w/ it and hes calling me girly girl and I THINK hes falling in love w/ me 'again'..... ahhhhhhh!!!!! what do I do? cause I dont like him like him and he has to choose between his ex that just came down and his recent girlfriend  and he just asked me if I would ever give him a second chance and I said I will have to think about it and umm I said in a couple of days I will tell you.. and I think he might not choose either of those girls and might ask me out.... help me!!!!!!!!  sorry for the bad punct and grammar...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on November 22, 2004, 09:22:37 PM
All I'm going to say is be carefull and dont ever meet up w/ him if he wants to... And I'm sure this is just a thing that will pass over. I know I have thought I was falling in love w/ someone and a day or two later sometimes even a week later I don't like them anymore in that way.  So just becarefull.... all he could want is to have sex and leave you.. never to talk to you again... he may say he would never do that.. but trust me there are alot of guys like that you cant trust everyone you meet.

like i said, dial '911' if he ever tries to make a move.
like i said dont meet up w/ him.


Well my love problem is this...

Okay me and my friend Josh made up after getting in a fight and well hmmm... how to put this... Okay we do this thing where we ask each other questions and stuff like that.. and I asked if he would date a girly girl or a tomboy.. and he said can it be fifty fifty? and IM like sure.. and then I bleched really loud and said excuse me and he called me a girly girl (which affends me cause I am no girly girl.) and sat night I told him me and my friend and her friend and I was acting like a fan girl cause I was all hyper and happy and  umm we were saying like Bakura was hot and Hiei was hot and Yoko was hot too and like I told him that and I also told him that I painted my nails a hot pink cause I thought I had fingernail polish remover and turns out I didnt so now IM stuck w/ it and hes calling me girly girl and I THINK hes falling in love w/ me 'again'..... ahhhhhhh!!!!! what do I do? cause I dont like him like him and he has to choose between his ex that just came down and his recent girlfriend  and he just asked me if I would ever give him a second chance and I said I will have to think about it and umm I said in a couple of days I will tell you.. and I think he might not choose either of those girls and might ask me out.... help me!!!!!!!!  sorry for the bad punct and grammar...

you might want to try paragraphs...they're pretty hot.

(/me plays Dr. Phil of yanime once more)

The problem with you is simple, you're narcissistic.  It's always about "me", and "I", etc.  For example, your second last sentence,
"and he just asked me if I would ever give him a second chance and I said I will have to think about it and umm I said in a couple of days I will tell you.. and I think he might not choose either of those girls and might ask me out.... help me!!!!!!!!"

Has it occured to you, that, me *might* not like you? Maybe he called you a "girly-girl" because, perhaps, you are (gasp) a "girly-girl"?  I'm sorry, but I hate to de-throne you off of your high-horse, but you're not the Queen of England, and not everyone likes you.  Learn to accept things at face value, before unleashing your self-absorbant method of deduction to analyze the situation.  But, hey, what if he does ask you out (oh noes), maybe you can find it somewhere deep within your self-loving heart that you might give this guy a chance?

...

I swear, people these days just need a good ole reality check.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 23, 2004, 09:30:41 AM
All I'm going to say is be carefull and dont ever meet up w/ him if he wants to... And I'm sure this is just a thing that will pass over. I know I have thought I was falling in love w/ someone and a day or two later sometimes even a week later I don't like them anymore in that way.  So just becarefull.... all he could want is to have sex and leave you.. never to talk to you again... he may say he would never do that.. but trust me there are alot of guys like that you cant trust everyone you meet.

like i said, dial '911' if he ever tries to make a move.
like i said dont meet up w/ him.


Well my love problem is this...

Okay me and my friend Josh made up after getting in a fight and well hmmm... how to put this... Okay we do this thing where we ask each other questions and stuff like that.. and I asked if he would date a girly girl or a tomboy.. and he said can it be fifty fifty? and IM like sure.. and then I bleched really loud and said excuse me and he called me a girly girl (which affends me cause I am no girly girl.) and sat night I told him me and my friend and her friend and I was acting like a fan girl cause I was all hyper and happy and  umm we were saying like Bakura was hot and Hiei was hot and Yoko was hot too and like I told him that and I also told him that I painted my nails a hot pink cause I thought I had fingernail polish remover and turns out I didnt so now IM stuck w/ it and hes calling me girly girl and I THINK hes falling in love w/ me 'again'..... ahhhhhhh!!!!! what do I do? cause I dont like him like him and he has to choose between his ex that just came down and his recent girlfriend  and he just asked me if I would ever give him a second chance and I said I will have to think about it and umm I said in a couple of days I will tell you.. and I think he might not choose either of those girls and might ask me out.... help me!!!!!!!!  sorry for the bad punct and grammar...

you might want to try paragraphs...they're pretty hot.

(/me plays Dr. Phil of yanime once more)

The problem with you is simple, you're narcissistic.  It's always about "me", and "I", etc.  For example, your second last sentence,
"and he just asked me if I would ever give him a second chance and I said I will have to think about it and umm I said in a couple of days I will tell you.. and I think he might not choose either of those girls and might ask me out.... help me!!!!!!!!"

Has it occured to you, that, me *might* not like you? Maybe he called you a "girly-girl" because, perhaps, you are (gasp) a "girly-girl"?  I'm sorry, but I hate to de-throne you off of your high-horse, but you're not the Queen of England, and not everyone likes you.  Learn to accept things at face value, before unleashing your self-absorbant method of deduction to analyze the situation.  But, hey, what if he does ask you out (oh noes), maybe you can find it somewhere deep within your self-loving heart that you might give this guy a chance?

...

I swear, people these days just need a good ole reality check.

okay one I do not think all about 'me' all the time I put others before me.

and what is narcissistic? 

Well he still hasnt gotten over me from the 5th grade. Cause I asked him not to long ago. 

I never said not everyone likes me... I know that.  I'm just asking what should I do w/ this situation...cause hes proly goign to want and answere today... and I dont want to hurt him....

and if I do go out w/ him....it would feel akward..cause were almost like best friends... and I dunno if my mother would like that (cause hes black).... well also for your information Im not a girly girl and I am not self-absorbed.. in this situation.. The last thing I care about is myself.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Steven on November 23, 2004, 09:32:37 AM
narcicism-An unhealthy love/obsession with ones self.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 23, 2004, 09:36:52 AM
I don't have that! No where near that, just cause I used 'i' and 'me' to much dosnt mean that. You shouldnt judge someone you dont know.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Steven on November 23, 2004, 09:38:52 AM
Steven's valueless advise- say what you mean.  If you lie because you don't want to hurt him, you'll just hurt him later....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on November 23, 2004, 10:17:30 AM
nothing jumps out at me more than this line:

"and I dunno if my mother would like that (cause hes black)...."

would your mother rather have him pick cottons than be your boyfriend?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 23, 2004, 10:40:34 AM
nothing jumps out at me more than this line:

"and I dunno if my mother would like that (cause hes black)...."

would your mother rather have him pick cottons than be your boyfriend?
I dunno... she just dosent like the idea.. neither does my father.. especialy my dad.. Im his little princess haha! thats what my mom and everyone eles says... cause Im the youngest daughter.. so he proly wont even let me date till IM like 18
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on November 23, 2004, 12:29:09 PM
What horrible parents...

Coincidentally, today is the Harmony Pledge thing about my school about cultural diversity.

*looks at the sticker she received*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 23, 2004, 12:37:18 PM
yeah... He just aske me out! whahah! help me! I dunno what to do. I mean I dont want to hurt his feelings if I say no and if I say yes then uhh err yeah.. I dunno what will happen...Tell me what to do!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on November 23, 2004, 02:22:20 PM
just give him the "my parents don't want me to go out with you...because you're black." as you have outlined earlier.

i'm sure he'll come to a rational conclusion that he cannot go out with you (or shoot you...whichever).
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on November 23, 2004, 03:31:38 PM
ummm...you like him because he called you cute?

Cheezus...no offense, but I find that kind of pathetic

No no.. not because of that. Because.. i have been talking to him for awhile.. and.. i like his personality.

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: CCLemon on November 23, 2004, 04:20:49 PM
Aww...
I was hoping Waya had one.
:p
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on November 23, 2004, 04:26:05 PM
Wells I told him no..after hours fo arugumentign w/ my self. I'm glad he didnt get hurt after all..  ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Sin on November 24, 2004, 11:16:19 AM
Love problems, aye? Alright, lets throw my into the boat.

I am currently with a young lady, Kierstin, who I have been going out with for about 3 months now. I'm surprised we have stayed togather so long because she is almost like me... Wait, I just got a better person to compare her to... Bryndon! Now that I think about it, she acts almost just like him... just she doesn't see lil green folk who get eaten by Steven. Anywho... She is 14 and I'm 17, kind of a large age range but we don't care. Lately we have been getting along great; staying up late, watching movies, cuddling on the couch, making out upstairs in her room... Just the good stuff, right? Well the problem comes in that she can become a total bitch at any given time... unless I was given the chance to start working my magic on the couch and such forth... and she would hate me to death. Today, I was told to go pick her up from school and come straight home, so I went and picked her up and she asked me to take her to the library. Now there are two libraries, one by her school and one a bit away. She wanted to go to the second one, but turns out she wanted to go to the first one too but didn't tell me until we got home and I had asked her mom if we could go to the library(which is where we are right now) and she said yes. Then when I got in the car she told me how she wanted to go to the other one as well. That kind of pissed me off. Some days she just wants to make me bash my head into a wall and kill myself instantly. Too bad I have plans and such forth, I don't think dying right now would work too well in my life...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Death Pixie on November 28, 2004, 05:52:34 PM
narcicism-An unhealthy love/obsession with ones self.


There's an incorrect definition if I've ever seen one.
That one belongs to narcissism.

>_>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on November 29, 2004, 11:48:01 PM
Meh. My ex and I may be getting back together. She wanted to before. Not sure how she feels now. She can in a few days, when she turns 18. (dec 16th, long story.)
Not sure I want her back. Not doing anything better, though. So if she wants to, might aswell, for now, until I have something else... It sounds bad, but she's done worse things to me.

I was sort of seeing someone else, but she kept standing me up, so screw that bitch.

The one girl I care about is too far away, now. Oh, I need a car...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Steven on December 01, 2004, 12:52:16 PM
narcicism-An unhealthy love/obsession with ones self.


There's an incorrect definition if I've ever seen one.
That one belongs to narcissism.

>_>

Yes, well :-[

Believe it or not, I rarely make spelling errors when I post....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: kmatt on December 01, 2004, 03:52:12 PM
well, am I crazy or sensible ... all views appreciated ... I gave up any and all relationships and have avoided having any for a year or two now on the grounds that anything serious almost always ends up breaking up very painfully ... am I being a stupid person, or would you say this is a reasonably sensible course?

And I have never personally ended a relationship, it has always been circumstance that threw things apart, and it's happened to EVERY relationship I've had :(

----

Black people are cool.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 02, 2004, 04:08:55 PM
well idk if this is a problem more than it is just an event, but me and my gf kali (she's in the pics with me in the member gallery) broke up yesterday after 15 months.  if i have any advice for you young guns it's just to take it easy, don't freak out cause some dude calls you cute or something, there are much bigger things in life.  don't try to rush love, or it won't happen, and you'll be left feeling like a n00b.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 02, 2004, 08:25:10 PM
ok... my new Love problem.

Ok.. as it turns out.. my ex still has feelings for me. And i still like him. But.. since he lives 4 hours away... i can hardly see him. I still love him.. or i have a very BIG crush on him. But anyways.. This guy ( jamie) he really likes me. But.. he's in 9th grade.. and i'm in 8th. we never see eachother unless my bus goes by the high school and we  see eachother then. But.. i like both of them. I just don't know who to choose. I mean... Jamie.. is kinda.. perverted.. and charles ( ex )  is.. the nicest person u could meet. and jamie to. But... i just am getting confused over who to pic.. since.. i both like them. I can't cheat on them. I'm not like that at all.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 02, 2004, 11:22:17 PM
Just wait till they hit puberty.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 12:26:27 PM
You knwo what, I dont believen love at first site. It doesnt make any sense. I can see like, a physical attraction at first site, but how can you love someone without even knowing anything about them.

For example, say you think you fall in love with this guy at first site, and then you go back to his place only to find that he has dead children in his basement and he likes to have sex with his dog.

Im sorry but love at first site is crap.

Is this a love problem for me? no, i dont have any love problems, i just like telling other people that their wrong.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 12:31:43 PM
i have to say that i agree with you here ryan
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 12:43:10 PM
as if I could be disagreed with
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 12:51:17 PM
i disagree with your opinion that san andreas sucks
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 12:57:37 PM
well i disagree with your face but you dont see my complaining.

lol, i dont think san andreas sucks, cuz its like, almost as popular as Halo 2 so it must be good. I would just never play it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 12:58:54 PM
trust me i'm not too happy with your face either

why wouldn't you play san andreas?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 01:09:45 PM
First of all, I would never let a filthy PS2 controller violate my beautiful hands.
2 of all, I dont like GTA, period.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 01:14:05 PM
ok, back to the subject...how is your lovey life koons?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 01:17:06 PM
Where I come from it's just called love, I dont know where this "y" is coming from.

My life kicks ass, and it's only gotten better since confessed to Jennifer that I love her.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 01:30:09 PM
that's good to hear man...i heard you're going to glenview soon
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 01:35:29 PM
Oh no doubt, it's gonna be off the hizzy to the rizzy nizzy....dizzy.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 03, 2004, 01:44:58 PM
I want to say you two ruined this thread, but the truth is that it was total crap before if was even started.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 01:46:34 PM
Look, if we dont ruin threads, who will?

Try using your brain sometime.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 01:56:10 PM
I want to say you two ruined this thread, but the truth is that it was total crap before if was even started.

if by ruining threads you mean getting off topic for like 3 posts and getting right back on topic, i don't see a problem with it
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 03, 2004, 02:00:30 PM
^ doesn't get jokes.

I love Waya. There. Back on topic.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 02:05:39 PM
...we were on topic before you made a point of trying to say we were off topic, but ok...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 03, 2004, 02:08:03 PM
I love Waya. There. Back on topic.

but how is that a problem? and he's mine. so back off ^.^

love problems... hm... WHAT ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO GET GUYS FOR CHRISTMAS? actually... i already have an idea... but more ideas would be nice. and please dont say sex. i need something i can put in a box and mail.

and how are you supposed to stop guys from worrying so much? sometimes theyre so silly
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 02:13:27 PM
you COULD send then sex in a box and mail it. Just pack done viagra in there, some magazines, lub, or just chop of your hand and toss it in there.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 03, 2004, 02:14:17 PM
...

i dont think i want you helping me with my problems

*giggles*

and im DEFINITELY NOT doing that
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 03, 2004, 02:28:00 PM
love problems... hm... WHAT ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO GET GUYS FOR CHRISTMAS? actually... i already have an idea... but more ideas would be nice. and please dont say sex. i need something i can put in a box and mail.

and how are you supposed to stop guys from worrying so much? sometimes theyre so silly

-Try a blow up doll.

Or a toy.  Toys always work.

Worse comes to worse...send him boxers you'd like to see him in.
:P *cough*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 02:29:29 PM
yea jen, listen too ruri, she knows what shes talking about.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 03, 2004, 02:30:17 PM
yea jen, listen too ruri, she knows what shes talking about.

are you serious... cuz thats definitely NOT what im getting you...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 02:31:18 PM
you COULD send then sex in a box and mail it. Just pack done viagra in there, some magazines, lub, or just chop of your hand and toss it in there.

i wouldn't use viagra if you don't have any problems like that...i've heard horror stories from people who have used it and didn't need it...
love problems... hm... WHAT ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO GET GUYS FOR CHRISTMAS? actually... i already have an idea... but more ideas would be nice. and please dont say sex. i need something i can put in a box and mail.

and how are you supposed to stop guys from worrying so much? sometimes theyre so silly
Worse comes to worse...send him boxers you'd like to see him in.

wow jen, does that not sound familiar? hahaha
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 02:32:15 PM
lol, i was just kidding.

i dont need anything like that, im all set over here.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 03, 2004, 03:06:09 PM
I thought the blow up doll was a good idea

They solve all sorts of "lovey problems!"

-Always there when you need 'em
-Will always sit and listen to you and then be there when you need 'em
-Provide anything for you
-And they'll even go away when you don't want them
-They're even portable!
Not only that, but they give you unconditional love, so you'll never have to worry about them cheating on you...but you sure as hell can cheat on them! ;)

I'm actually thinking of getting one for my friend for Christmas since his dad threw his out
Poor Hitomi..

I'm sorry if all that seemed off-topic, but for good measure
I don't currently have love problems. :) I'm as happy as a dandelion.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 03, 2004, 03:14:35 PM
wow jen, does that not sound familiar? hahaha

DUDE! I still have those if ya still want em ^.~

I thought the blow up doll was a good idea

They solve all sorts of "lovey problems!"

-Always there when you need 'em
-Will always sit and listen to you and then be there when you need 'em
-Provide anything for you
-And they'll even go away when you don't want them
-They're even portable!
Not only that, but they give you unconditional love, so you'll never have to worry about them cheating on you...but you sure as hell can cheat on them! ;)

I'm actually thinking of getting one for my friend for Christmas since his dad threw his out

I'm sorry if all that seemed off-topic, but for good measure
I don't currently have love problems. :) I'm as happy as a dandelion.

lucky you with no problems... but then again, i guess im problem free too ^.^

my friend has a blow up doll... we do naughty things to it. no just kidding
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 03, 2004, 04:19:21 PM
I GOT A NEW BOYFRIEND!!! YAY!!! I picked jamie.... YAY!!!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 03, 2004, 05:55:00 PM
Have you decided who it's going to be next week? zing!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 03, 2004, 06:55:49 PM
Heh... so Jennifer and Ryan, eh? Interesting... I might get over toward Glenview for ACen this year with Ruri... if possible. And yes, no love problems here either. :) (Dandelions are very happy, by the way)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 07:01:17 PM
Your damn right its interesting. I dont knwo anything about these dandilions, or even how to spell them, but things are going quite wonderfully.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 03, 2004, 07:07:06 PM
Your damn right its interesting. I dont knwo anything about these dandilions, or even how to spell them, but things are going quite wonderfully.

Umm... don't mean to bring up anything bad, but does Mar mind? << Does that not matter? Gah, you guys leave for far too long. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 07:11:57 PM
Jennifer and Mar are over. As far as I can he's pretty cool with it.

I mean were still mad close friends and everything. In fact, nothing realy changed at all, nothing ever changes between Mar and I, no matter what. Kinda strange.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 03, 2004, 08:27:12 PM
Ah, very good to hear. :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 09:02:47 PM
wow jen, does that not sound familiar? hahaha

DUDE! I still have those if ya still want em ^.~

actually i do want them, i'm running low on boxers...do you still have my address?  if not PM me and i'll give it to you.  i'll try to find the purple elephant and send it.

me and kali are back together, which is cool.  i mean, i know it sounds really childish how we keep breaking up and getting back together, but really we have a pretty mature relationship seeing as how it's lasted so long, and i honestly think we won't be breaking up for a loooong time...*knock on wood*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 03, 2004, 09:07:17 PM
um... yeah i have your address... i'll try to send em soon.

MAR'S MY BEST FRIEND! NOT YOURS RYAN ^.^ *giggles*

osh... we actually kept it a secret for a little bit... >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 03, 2004, 09:20:32 PM
osh... we actually kept it a secret for a little bit... >.<

Did you keep it a secret for longer than 30 seconds?

And congrats, Ben... however, if you guys keep breaking up and getting back together, it WILL NOT work out. Now, if you two work on keeping it together within the relationship, that's different. I suggest that in the future.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 03, 2004, 09:31:14 PM
yeah, i know...thanks peter...she's just different, you know?  but if we end up breaking up again i'm not getting back together with her
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 03, 2004, 11:13:38 PM
lol, thats what you said the last 15 times Ben.

and our thing was a secret for a few days, but then Jennifer had to go and blab it out to the whole world.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 04, 2004, 08:21:39 AM
lol, thats what you said the last 15 times Ben.

i've been dating kali for 15 months and we didn't break up once the first 14 and a half months.  a lot of couples do this.  this has been an exception because we usually don't do stupid childish things like this.  how many girls have you dated again for 15 months?  oh, zero? ok then.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 04, 2004, 09:20:36 AM
How many girls have I dated period?

oh, zero? ok then.

Well, cept Jen, but it's more like like a kind of dating where no dates are involved at all, and quite francly that's fine with me.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 04, 2004, 10:06:28 AM
How many girls have I dated period?

oh, zero? ok then.

Well, cept Jen, but it's more like like a kind of dating where no dates are involved at all, and quite francly that's fine with me.

yeah sometimes dates can crash and burn, and that sucks
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 04, 2004, 02:41:40 PM
i didn't blab... RYAN'S the one that told mar he liked me ^.^ and then i kept telling mar that he was lying and that nobody liked me or something... *giggles*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 05:13:11 AM
all i can say to that one is n00b
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 05, 2004, 10:13:12 AM
ok... so now for an actual problem. lets say person a liked person b for a REALLY long time. but person b was never interested. but then a year later person b tells person a that person b likes person a. and its all la la nice. but then a couple days later person a puts their hand in person c's pants. person a tells person b and they work it out. but whenever person a goes out with person c, person b gets bothered. and it makes person a sad. and apparently person c still feels uncomfortable with the situation. but person a didn't know that because person a is stupid and oblivious. what should person a do?

sorry if that made no sense whatsoever >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 10:25:05 AM
person a should talk to person b and person c about the situation, whether it's seperately or with b and c in the same room
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 05, 2004, 10:27:10 AM
person a tried talking to person b...and person b says they'll be okay... but it still bothers them. and it makes person a sad that they hurt person b.

person c said they had no interest in person a. and person a believed that and thought all was well... but person d recently told person a that person c was still uncomfortable by it and maybe wanted something else.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 10:29:49 AM
a should convince b as much as they can that they love them the most and that they have no interest in c, if that's the case.  and a should just have a talk with c.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 05, 2004, 10:32:19 AM
person b knows how person a feels... but sometimes person b starts thinking about it and cant stop thinking about it... and then person b gets kinda blah. and that drives person a crazy because person b never used to get blah until person b fell in love with person a. so its all person a's fault

person d is gonna talk to person c for person a... but if worse comes to worse person a will prolly talk to person c about it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 11:12:46 AM
well person a is just gonna have to wait it out
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 05, 2004, 11:34:43 AM
I think it would've been eaiser using made up names like dick and suzy rather than a, b, c, d <<;

Good luck
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 12:17:17 PM
Great!! Just perfect!! My ex is hitting on me right after i got a new bf. He doesn't know though.. but... i won't tell him cause... i don't want.. to break his heart like he did me... its not right. I just don't know what to do. Stay singal.. or what! I want to be around ppl..( guys ) but... being around my ex in dallas during x-mas break. Please.. give GOOD advise.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 12:39:11 PM
Please.. give GOOD advise.

quit pussyfooting around and scream into his face that you've got a new bf that's a million times hotter and better than him in every way.  tell him you called his unit the "little soldier" for a reason.  when he starts crying hit him in the face with a brick and throw him through a window.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 05, 2004, 12:43:11 PM
If you don't want to tell him you're with someone, most likely, you'd rahter be with him than the person you're actually with. Generally, when someone breaks up with you, you'd want them to see you with someone else, just because... that's the way it is. It seems like you don't want him to know, becuase you want to make something out of it. That's real advice- or something like it. And that's the first AND last time you'll ever get it from me, about your silly little pre-school cootie filled romances, that'll last no more than a week.

Jennifer, just go with person L or H, and it'll all be fine.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 01:01:21 PM
ummm.... i don't belive in coody's what ever they are. and... i don't because.. like i said.. i like both of them.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on December 05, 2004, 01:08:50 PM
Date both of them? Haha Just kidding. I dunno really. Just tell him.  Just be friends with him for now and then see if your feelings are still the same
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 01:18:44 PM
my advice is bulletproof
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 02:07:17 PM
And just so u know... i don't hit ppl. >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 05, 2004, 02:24:38 PM
Angel: My advice?

Stop dating.  From what I can collect, stop leading them on, 'cause that's lame.
Grow up, and then try again.  Try again when you're able to handle yourself better, and make your own decisions, as oppose to asking a board every time you're faced with a silly predicament.
You're going to get older, look back and wonder why you were being so silly.


And Jen...I barely got what you said @_@
But umm..<<; yea-Good luck anywhos
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 02:44:32 PM
I'm not leading them on. Not at all. nope nope nope. I just accept them as friends... and.. they like my personality... and.. they like me. Thats just me. I'm nice to everyone. Is that bad?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 02:52:06 PM
Angel: My advice?

Stop dating.  From what I can collect, stop leading them on, 'cause that's lame.
Grow up, and then try again.  Try again when you're able to handle yourself better, and make your own decisions, as oppose to asking a board every time you're faced with a silly predicament.
You're going to get older, look back and wonder why you were being so silly.

omg, thank you ruri.  i hope every girl in the world reads that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 05, 2004, 04:07:52 PM
Not every girl in the world needs to read that- just the immature ones, like angel...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 05, 2004, 04:17:44 PM
yeah i know, but it wouldn't hurt the mature ones just in case
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 05:05:38 PM
i'm not immature. I'm just confuesed... i don't know if i should wait untill.. i get over my ex.. or not. Cause.. i'm going to see jamie next year.. and charles... in a couple of week. >.< -.-'''''
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 05, 2004, 05:18:38 PM
i'm not immature. I'm just confuesed... i don't know if i should wait untill.. i get over my ex.. or not. Cause.. i'm going to see jamie next year.. and charles... in a couple of week. >.< -.-'''''

You completely missed what I said.  If you can't choose between the two, don't date one and not tell the other.  That's exactly what I mean by leading them on.  And I said leading guys on is lame.  You may hurt them, but in the long run, you're going to only hurt them ten-fold because you're too dense to realize how high you're getting their hopes up.

But anyways, Thanks for the comment Ben.  The immature ones should read it, though it wouldn't hurt the mature ones.  If anything, they'd be able to understand.  (Unlike some that can't even comprehend)

There are just some girls that go through a stage, where they're attention-craving idiots.  (There are some exceptions) And I don't say it to be mean, I say it 'cause I believe it's the truth. *shrugs*

Ech, I used to be one of them. >.O Gah, I regret being so stoopid.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 05, 2004, 05:26:57 PM
so ur calling immature!!! damn yall r mean. ::) but my point is.. i know what u were saying. but...i hate breaking up with '' SOME'' ppl. the ones i love.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 05, 2004, 08:12:14 PM
so ur calling immature!!! damn yall r mean. ::) but my point is.. i know what u were saying. but...i hate breaking up with '' SOME'' ppl. the ones i love.

Unless you're referring to Beeverpaste...there's no one else calling you immature.

Besides, you should expect that from him by now :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 05, 2004, 11:29:05 PM
so ur calling immature!!! damn yall r mean. ::) but my point is.. i know what u were saying. but...i hate breaking up with '' SOME'' ppl. the ones i love.

*Ahem* Read what you just typed... does it look mature to you?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 06, 2004, 10:34:26 AM
person b knows how person a feels... but sometimes person b starts thinking about it and cant stop thinking about it... and then person b gets kinda blah. and that drives person a crazy because person b never used to get blah until person b fell in love with person a. so its all person a's fault

person d is gonna talk to person c for person a... but if worse comes to worse person a will prolly talk to person c about it.

Person a is cute ^.^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 06, 2004, 12:49:47 PM
person b knows how person a feels... but sometimes person b starts thinking about it and cant stop thinking about it... and then person b gets kinda blah. and that drives person a crazy because person b never used to get blah until person b fell in love with person a. so its all person a's fault

person d is gonna talk to person c for person a... but if worse comes to worse person a will prolly talk to person c about it.

Person a is cute ^.^

::) What about person b? :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 06, 2004, 12:58:58 PM
person b is a person that is really good at making sigs and should get a certain ddr sig done asap
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Night Priestess on December 06, 2004, 01:02:37 PM
but what happened to person d?!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 06, 2004, 01:12:01 PM
but what happened to person d?!

What do you mean? They are going to try and talk to Mr.C. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on December 06, 2004, 01:34:58 PM
I am Person X, the long lost brother of Person A, who happens to be in this entire love problem, under the guise of PERSON X!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Night Priestess on December 06, 2004, 01:46:24 PM
But what about person a?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 06, 2004, 03:22:22 PM
person a will be fine, things will work out ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 06, 2004, 03:24:33 PM
person a is always okay...

but yeah. I'm sure everything will work out for them... maybe... >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 06, 2004, 06:02:29 PM
Not mabye, definetly.

Person a and Person b, will be happy, and together forever. Person c and d will just have to hook up with person g and h.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 06, 2004, 06:05:31 PM
Not mabye, definetly.


AHHH!!  Yeepers...

DEFINITELY...Spelled with an "i"
d-e-f-i-n-i-t-e-l-y

--Sorry, I'm a lil' anal with that word.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 06, 2004, 06:08:25 PM
You will soon get used to the fact that I spell 50% of the english language wrong.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 06, 2004, 06:08:53 PM
*giggles*

Not mabye, definetly.

Person a and Person b, will be happy, and together forever. Person c and d will just have to hook up with person g and h.

*giggles* person d already has a person e. person c can go screw himself ^.^

person a and person b are the only ones that matter.

osh... person b keeps making person a be selfish >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 06, 2004, 06:12:49 PM
I wonder if anyone on this board actually does not know by now who a and b are. :P Although it would be interesting who c is <<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 06, 2004, 06:14:03 PM
but you guys dont know person a and b...

>.<

and definitely do NOT know person c
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 06, 2004, 06:15:40 PM
I dont even know who person a and b are, i dont know how you guys do.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 06, 2004, 06:43:32 PM
i know who all the people are. i'm special.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 06, 2004, 07:27:07 PM
me too, hells yeah LOLZ
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 06, 2004, 08:19:18 PM
word.


oops. this would be considered a spam post, wouldn't it? oh well.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 06, 2004, 08:38:18 PM
OMG HOW DARE YOU

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Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Treenity on December 06, 2004, 11:43:05 PM
All I can say is....you're all really messed up. And in the next chapter I edit, I will be sure to make a note stating how those in the Yanime forums, are as such.

And...just to stay on topic. I currently do not have a boyfriend. ::)

Thank you...and....keep reading our wonderful releases.

[Waya...you're an idiot for starting a thread like this  :P]

Oh yes, yes. If you wish to reach me for any flaming, please come join the IRC channel.
#yanime @ irc.irchighway.net
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 07, 2004, 04:00:14 AM
i'm pretty sure we're not all messed up.  i dated a girl for 15 months, broke up with her for a couple of days, and then got back together when we realized that would be best for us.  is that really that messed up?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 07, 2004, 11:04:50 PM
All I know is that I now hate the American alphabets. Why couldn't you have used numbers as examples, instead? I never use those things anyway.

And yeah, I think it does, 12thefrehttredhftreh. But what can I say? I've been doing the same things with the same girl, off and on, for over a year. I know how it is...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 08, 2004, 12:56:30 PM
we were never like that though...we stayed together for 14 and 3/4 months, broke up, and got back together.  it's not that huge of a deal.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tonyf9685 on December 08, 2004, 11:06:37 PM
I have no "lovey problems" to speak of...

My girlfriend and I are coming up on our 6-month anniversary (on Dec. 14th), and we're very happy together...I've never met anyone like her before, and I'm positive I never will again.

She's incredibly kind and caring, a sincere girl with a heart of gold.  Her patience with me and everyone else is amazing.  I find myself staring into her eyes, and having no desire to blink or look away.  Her smile lights up a room, and makes my knees feel weak.  Her laugh is the sweetest sound to ever grace my ears.  When she's upset, my heart melts and my only objective is to put a smile back on her face, no matter what it takes.  I'd give up everything I have just for the opportunity to make her happy and show her my love everyday, for the rest of our lives.  She's simply the girl I see myself standing beside in all my dreams and thoughts of the future, and her love is all that I'll ever need.

I know I sound INCREDIBLY corny...^^'  But you know what?  I don't give a damn...That's what love can do to you, folks.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 09, 2004, 12:58:10 PM
i'm happy for you man, just remember to be careful.  don't dive in headfirst cause there's always a chance you'll get hurt.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 09:18:00 PM
thats real optimistic :P

but yeah... i guess its true.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 09, 2004, 09:49:08 PM
it's good to not get your hopes up so high. that way, if something happens, it won't end up being a huge let down. i guess my philosophy is to just... go with the flow. to not think too much about the future unless you're ready to make a real commitment. which most people aren't ready for, even if they think they are.

it's kind of against my own personal rules to talk about my future with someone i guess... sure i think about it sometimes, but by not talking about it, i avoid "brainwashing" myself into believing it will really happen one day.

everything comes to an end.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 09:51:20 PM
for once in my life im actually willing to make commitment ^.^

idk...like, im seriously happy with my relationship and i know that im not gonna get bored with it like i have with past relationships.

idk... im just willing to wait however long i have to.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 09, 2004, 09:53:42 PM
i know what you mean. i sorta feel the same way sometimes...

and yet, i don't want to say anything yet.


because anything could happen...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 09:57:17 PM
yeah... but like. idk. me and ryan have issues sometimes... not like horribly bad stuff... mostly just me being stupid. but like hes REALLY sweet and i stop being so stupid and everything just seems to work out all the time... like, i used to worry that it wouldnt last and stuff but like. im just really happy with him
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 09, 2004, 09:58:11 PM
and that's definately a good thing.

let's just hope you guys are still the same after meeting and such.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 10:01:17 PM
yeah... this time im NOT gonna freak out *remembers when i first met josh and mar* >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 09, 2004, 10:07:08 PM
man, when jon came, i kept wishing my mom wasn't there with us... hahaha... *dies*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 10:08:07 PM
haha. he should totally come in the spring. thatd be sooo awesome
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 09, 2004, 10:10:15 PM
yeah, it would be great
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 09, 2004, 10:22:54 PM
Aint nothin to worry about. When josh and I first see you guys, hopefully that first saturday, we will be so jacked up on caffine from drinking bawls so we dont fall alseep on the train that the both of us will forget were supposed to be shy and go absolute nuts.

Plus, being with josh, makes me be more out-going, because he's alot worse then I am about like, shyness, so I guess sub-consiously I have to do the non shyness for the both of us or something. It all works out in the end, me and josh rule, no question abou it.

Jen, just dont flip out because of my sexyness, it may be too much to handle.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 09, 2004, 10:25:03 PM
doubt it ^.^

besides... if i flip out... you wont get any. i dont think you want that *giggles*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 10, 2004, 04:49:52 AM
yeah... this time im NOT gonna freak out *remembers when i first met josh and mar* >.<

...LOL...what did you do jennifer?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: BlueEvil on December 10, 2004, 07:03:22 AM
all I can say... is when I went to IL.. I said... MAYBE MAYBE... I said a 1/2 of a letter

I don't even think I said that... maybe 3/16 of a letter.  that's better.  yeah, exactly right on the nose.  3/16 of the letter N.  and I like died.  and mar listened to music in his headphones.  and I played with rocky.  I think that's the only thing that happened.  except when chucko and like others and mar and I, were running back and forth across the street.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 10, 2004, 09:52:11 AM
wendy's bacon mushroom melt!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 10, 2004, 09:56:06 AM
we like didnt talk... well... the guys all did when they totally just disappeared :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 10, 2004, 09:56:54 AM
yeah. pff newbs.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 10, 2004, 09:59:36 AM
blah. i wish id been there longer than a day...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 10, 2004, 11:51:39 AM
Huh, funny, when I met up with Chaz and Mark, we had a grand ol' time. *shrug* Shaina and Danielle too, although we did not talk as much.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 10, 2004, 01:01:19 PM
josh and koons, quit being n00bs and try talking to people when you travel 324335 miles to see them :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: BlueEvil on December 10, 2004, 01:12:08 PM
wendy's bacon mushroom melt!

yesss!!  wendy's bacon mushroom melt!!!!11onetwothree

we like didnt talk... well... the guys all did when they totally just disappeared :P

hey hey...  all the guys disappeared but me.  I was with you 2 watching dead like me.  and stuff, it was the first episode I saw.  it was awesome too.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Night Priestess on December 10, 2004, 01:26:52 PM
why did I have the feeling that this would get this off-topic?

anyway, I've got a problem.

I've known this guy for years and he's always been there for me. A couple of years ago, he asked me out. I really didn't want to get involved with him, not because I didn't feel the same way, but because I was dealing with some stuff. But now, ... well... I can't really... Please excuse me. I'm struggling with the phrasing a little... I think right now that I need him more than I want to admit. I'm just not sure of myself, I guess. I dunno. If you feel like responding, then do. Whatever.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 10, 2004, 01:53:37 PM
dude this is so not off topic

you see, the buffaononiens LOVE the glenviewiens, so technically its a love problem that we cant go visit them right now, we have to wait.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 10, 2004, 02:22:54 PM
why did I have the feeling that this would get this off-topic?

anyway, I've got a problem.

I've known this guy for years and he's always been there for me. A couple of years ago, he asked me out. I really didn't want to get involved with him, not because I didn't feel the same way, but because I was dealing with some stuff. But now, ... well... I can't really... Please excuse me. I'm struggling with the phrasing a little... I think right now that I need him more than I want to admit. I'm just not sure of myself, I guess. I dunno. If you feel like responding, then do. Whatever.

Getting off topic can't be helped.

Do you need him more than you think, or just like him more than you think/want to?  If you do, then I think you should be with him.  Not necessarily go out, however hang out more or something along those lines.  If you really enjoy his company, and it's that undescribable, and you're both willing, try it.  Just be sure you know what you're getting into.

In my opinion, the best kind of love is one that cannot be described.
Nameless Emotions.

*shrugs* My "advice" was kind of general, though it's something.  Good luck.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 10, 2004, 02:24:23 PM
you see, the buffaononiens LOVE the glenviewiens, so technically its a love problem that we cant go visit them right now, we have to wait.

and the bridgewateriens hate the buffalononiens because they are bad at meeting sig deadlines :P

why did I have the feeling that this would get this off-topic?

anyway, I've got a problem.

I've known this guy for years and he's always been there for me. A couple of years ago, he asked me out. I really didn't want to get involved with him, not because I didn't feel the same way, but because I was dealing with some stuff. But now, ... well... I can't really... Please excuse me. I'm struggling with the phrasing a little... I think right now that I need him more than I want to admit. I'm just not sure of myself, I guess. I dunno. If you feel like responding, then do. Whatever.

Getting off topic can't be helped.

OMG i never thought i would see ruri post that, amazing
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 10, 2004, 02:30:15 PM
Getting off topic can't be helped.

OMG i never thought i would see ruri post that, amazing


*gigglesnort*  Dork.
Why is it so hard to believe? o_O  I'm not "hardcore" or anything about staying on topic..
Do I come off that way? x_x
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 10, 2004, 02:57:54 PM
umm nah, i guess you don't...but peter is right wing extremist about staying on topic...lol jk, he's not that bad...and he's cool so it's ok...i think he just doesn't want to see this board turn into a big version of the old off topic forum...-_-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 10, 2004, 03:13:38 PM
I LOVE PETER!

i miss when he used to spam... but if it werent for him this board wouldve probably been overrun with offtopic randomness
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 10, 2004, 03:22:19 PM
That's right, since Charles never comes by... he just hires people like Kevin and Waya to do it for him. Haha...

Topic-Nazi! Get back on topic now, or no post counts for you!!  >:(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 10, 2004, 03:24:43 PM
*giggles* I LOVE PETER!

and im on topic! because its a lovey problem! see... the problem is... i love peter... but i also love spam. so i have to debate, spam? or peter? i totally wanna choose peter, but spamming just comes naturally...

the decisions the decisions

*explodes*

I LOVE RYAN ^.^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 10, 2004, 07:11:18 PM
*giggles* I LOVE PETER!

and im on topic! because its a lovey problem! see... the problem is... i love peter... but i also love spam. so i have to debate, spam? or peter? i totally wanna choose peter, but spamming just comes naturally...

the decisions the decisions

*explodes*

I LOVE RYAN ^.^

You can take the spam...I'll handle Peter.  :O!  Whoo.
And who knows...maybe Peter is rubbing off on me or something.

Either that, or I could get him to lighten up.  Bwahah. 
I love the power I behold. (On Peter of course)

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tonyf9685 on December 10, 2004, 11:10:28 PM
why did I have the feeling that this would get this off-topic?

anyway, I've got a problem.

I've known this guy for years and he's always been there for me. A couple of years ago, he asked me out. I really didn't want to get involved with him, not because I didn't feel the same way, but because I was dealing with some stuff. But now, ... well... I can't really... Please excuse me. I'm struggling with the phrasing a little... I think right now that I need him more than I want to admit. I'm just not sure of myself, I guess. I dunno. If you feel like responding, then do. Whatever.


Well, stuff like this happens all the time...You're close with someone for a long time, and you never really look at them as a possible romantic interest, just someone that you feel comfortable talking to and being around.  With this guy you're speaking of, he's shown in the past that he has feelings for you, that are more than just 'friendly'; so if he's still willing to be with you that way, and you've decided that it wouldn't be such a bad thing, then embrace it.  It's really difficult to find a person who is there for you through the good and bad times; a person who really cares about you, and wants to make you happy; a person like your friend. 

Plus, if the two of you are really good friends, then it makes it more likely that, even if a relationship doesn't work out, you two will be able to maintain a friendship regardless.  So I say to go for it, girl... ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 11, 2004, 12:55:02 AM
Wait, Judau is Peter, right? If so, I love Peter, too. <3

What's the deal with all you freaks, though? How do you all know eachother? It's like you all live in the same house, on different floors... Oh, and internet relationships are usually not a good idea. Maybe it'll work for you guys- I know a girl who's been with the guy she's with now, for 3 years in person (or something like that), and she met him online. But I met a friend of mine off the internet, and it was really awkward meeting him in person. I know a girl online, who's pretty much perfect for me- I like her, she likes me... but she lives too far, and no way could I do the e-relationship thing. If I could meet her in person right away, maybe, but I don't know about putting off a life outside the web for a long time, when, when I meet her she may be someone completely different, and... etc... blah.
I guess having sex right away might get rid of some of the tension, and stuff, building up after all that time of communicating through your fingertips, which might make it a little less awkward. That's what I'd do. Yeap.
Ryan... Serieeeiie.. whatever the fuck it is, get on that right after you meet her in person, if you know what's good for you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 11, 2004, 07:46:30 AM
haha... well some of us live in the same places... like jennifer and charles and i all live in glenview, il. i don't know who else lives in the same place as any of the other members but yeah... that was an example.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 11, 2004, 08:20:17 AM
I don't know if you are directly talking to my relationship with Ruri or if its a little more general, but ours is not an internet relationship, we met in school and were good friends for quite some time before going out. I just pick them right, so she's here. ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 11, 2004, 11:46:39 AM
there goes peter being a megapimp again
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 11, 2004, 11:57:22 AM
there goes peter being a megapimp again

Must be the pimp juice-Mountin Dew :P
I prefer to be "James Bond's" girlfriend though-That makes things interesting  ::)

However, before Judau, I've been in long distance, internet relationships.  Personally, I hate them now. : )  They didn't work out, EVER, and sometimes, your internet friend/"lover" is worse in person than you think.  So, eh, I'd suggest not to get your hopes too high.  Many people can be different online than in person very easily...and without even knowing it.


I just pick them right, so she's here. ;)

::) Suuuuuure. Dork. <#
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 11, 2004, 03:16:08 PM
However, before Judau, I've been in long distance, internet relationships.  Personally, I hate them now. : )  They didn't work out, EVER, and sometimes, your internet friend/"lover" is worse in person than you think.  So, eh, I'd suggest not to get your hopes too high.  Many people can be different online than in person very easily...and without even knowing it.

Although it can still somtimes work out.... like Legato and LOGC, they are married now... have been for months. It was nice seeing it all work out, I just hope they stick with it. ^^;; Of course, they were out of high school, its a little tougher on people in high school, who cannot just drop everything and go get married to that person... so they have to keep it long distance for a while. :-\
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Seirie on December 11, 2004, 06:22:47 PM
I think it's safe to say that just as many, if not MORE "short distance" relationships dont work out when compared to long distance ones. In either case, if the two individuals are truely in love, it will work out just fine.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 11, 2004, 08:11:55 PM
true that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: caring_is_creepy on December 12, 2004, 09:04:26 AM
my long distance relationships have lasted longer than almost all the ones ive had around here >.< which is horrible. cuz im stupid
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 12, 2004, 02:24:58 PM
However, before Judau, I've been in long distance, internet relationships.  Personally, I hate them now. : )  They didn't work out, EVER, and sometimes, your internet friend/"lover" is worse in person than you think.  So, eh, I'd suggest not to get your hopes too high.  Many people can be different online than in person very easily...and without even knowing it.

Although it can still somtimes work out.... like Legato and LOGC, they are married now... have been for months. It was nice seeing it all work out, I just hope they stick with it. ^^;; Of course, they were out of high school, its a little tougher on people in high school, who cannot just drop everything and go get married to that person... so they have to keep it long distance for a while. :-\

oh yeah?  that's cool that they're still together.  last time i talked to kraft and gilly they had just gotten married...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 13, 2004, 12:35:16 AM
My ex is a whore. That's my "lovey" problem right now.

Bitch, you show up at church with a hangover, pink hair, you take off your shirt at a party and throw up in the bath tub because some guy is peeing in the toilet, and you continue to pass me stupid notes flirting- and I make you "stray from God?" Stop blaming your problems on other people, hippy. I'm never going out with a christian again. No way.
I don't like her much anymore anyway. But that shit pisses me off. You lead a different guy on every few weeks, not me.

Or is this more like Angst thread material? Same thing. Bleh.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on December 13, 2004, 03:12:41 AM
Yeah, I met my boyfriend online too. It's been almost 14 months now and we're fine together and everything.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 13, 2004, 07:05:33 PM
yea, i found out that my 2nd to last bf was cheating on me. I fucking flicked him off in front of a teacher, i  got detition though. >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on December 13, 2004, 07:19:57 PM
Heaven forbid that someone cheat during a pointless puppy love relationship.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 13, 2004, 08:06:59 PM
yea, i found out that my 2nd to last bf was cheating on me. I fucking flicked him off in front of a teacher, i  got detition though. >.<

wow, you're hardcore.  detention...you're practically a lifer.  we better be scared of you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: woodsyd on December 13, 2004, 08:20:19 PM
i think you're one step away from becoming John Wayne Bobbit's wife
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on December 13, 2004, 08:48:21 PM
internet long distance relationships?!?!

ZOMGWTFROFFLEMAYO

you know, the reason they last so long is because neither party knows what the other person is doing in real life (or who they're doing. cough).

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 14, 2004, 04:28:42 AM
Bitch, you show up at church with a hangover, pink hair, you take off your shirt at a party and throw up in the bath tub because some guy is peeing in the toilet, and you continue to pass me stupid notes flirting- and I make you "stray from God?" Stop blaming your problems on other people, hippy. I'm never going out with a christian again. No way.


Heh...Wow, one of my ex-bfs was the same exact way.
Blamed me since he was "moving away from God"
...Broke up with me, and I later found out, found another girl within a week
Yay.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 14, 2004, 12:37:54 PM
i think you're one step away from becoming John Wayne Bobbit's wife

LOL that's very true...except she'll be cutting off her imaginary husband's imaginary penis
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 14, 2004, 02:36:34 PM
no no.. not internet relationship. god ur stupid. Get the facts before u start saying stuff.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on December 14, 2004, 03:40:24 PM
no no.. not internet relationship. god ur stupid. Get the facts before u start saying stuff.

No, you're stupid. He knows it's not an internet relationship. Ben is a hell of a lot smarter than you, so I think you should just trust him with what he says. Hey, he figured out what the hell you were trying to say even though you can't even speak English. That takes skill.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 14, 2004, 03:45:36 PM
I can do that. HEY!!! I just got that.. thats mean!!but anyways. But why would he say something about an invisable penis and shit?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: invincible. on December 15, 2004, 12:57:32 PM
Well, i really like this girl and today i found out that she has a bf and i don't really wanna do anything to break them up, but i really like her and i really wanna be with her.. im feelin sad and i dunno what to do.. any suggestions? thanks.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Night Priestess on December 15, 2004, 01:02:23 PM
unfortunately, there's not much you can do, Sir. the only thing I can say is that if you are willing to wait and suceed, then you worthy of her because that shows devotion-which is so incredibly uncommon these days it's not funny.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: invincible. on December 15, 2004, 01:12:39 PM
Ok.. i'll try to wait, but im seeing her more often these days and its gonna be hard to try to not do anything..  :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 15, 2004, 02:14:59 PM
Haven't we come across one of these situations already?

Well, anyways...wait, be patient, become friends with her.
It'll work out in the end.

You'll either end up dating her when the time comes, or...If you don't end up with her, she's probably happy the way she is and only sees you as a friend, or subconsciously likes you and doesn't realize it.

--Something to that extent.  Be happies the way you are.  No sense rushing anything.  Besides, you have plenty of time ahead of you to find another girl or get with this one.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: invincible. on December 15, 2004, 02:24:48 PM
True.. even though i hate waiting, i'll give it a try =/
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 15, 2004, 05:25:06 PM
True.. even though i hate waiting, i'll give it a try =/

My friend always told me:
Can't have the rainbow, without the rain

*shrugs* Dun' worry, it won't kill ya
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 17, 2004, 09:54:04 PM
i have the perfect solution to everyone's love problems....just be a pimp. HANH
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 18, 2004, 10:06:37 AM
I like that!! ;D Be pimp!!! Thats the way to go!! All the way!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 18, 2004, 10:57:09 AM
not you, cause then your bitches wouldn't give you your money and you'd cry and write on your arm with red lipliner
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 18, 2004, 11:26:04 AM
red.. lip.. liner?? sory.. i don't wear makeup.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 18, 2004, 12:45:14 PM
you just draw with it
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 19, 2004, 07:18:13 AM
sorry.

My Lovey Problems today....

Ok.. Last night i was talking to Charles ( my ex ) and... he started yelling at me cause i was like..
 " i want to die but i won't"
" Well Do it already, its not that hard!"
" * crys"
 " Boo Hoo whats wrong?"

I loged off after that.. and he's not talking to me.. did i do something wrong? Besides the fact that i told him i wanted to die though.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 19, 2004, 07:52:44 AM
yeah i think the fact that you always tell everyone how you want to die and then expect sympathy pisses him off.  i'm serious.  copy and paste that and ask him and i guarantee you he'll agree.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on December 19, 2004, 02:49:18 PM
what do you mean, you want to die but you wont?

if you really wanted to die you'd do it. so you obviously do NOT want to die.

and how is that a lovey problem if he's your ex? i don't really see how it makes a difference.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on December 19, 2004, 04:29:28 PM
To many ppl love/ like me. Thats why.. And if I kill myself.. then i would go to hell. My friends told me that if i kill myself, they would kill their selfs.. and i don't want that to happen.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 19, 2004, 10:06:28 PM
don't be so dramatic. you're such a child. and honestly, i doubt that "to many ppl love/ like" you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: DangerGirlX on December 19, 2004, 11:37:57 PM
That's kinda heartless.
I'm sure many peoples likes you Angel of the Moon.

*pat pat*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 19, 2004, 11:43:27 PM
i've lost any sympathy and respect i once had for her.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: DangerGirlX on December 19, 2004, 11:47:50 PM
And eye ewe
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tonyf9685 on December 20, 2004, 02:42:52 AM
i've lost any sympathy and respect i once had for her.


Sorry, but I gotta agree.  I realize she's just a young girl, and she seems to have a kinda messed-up life; I try to tell myself that as I read her posts.  But still, there is no excuse for the way she acts; she's extremely immature for her age, and she acts as though she's the only person in the world with problems.  You have to feel sorry for her at first, but as you read more and more of her posts?  You start to wish that someone would grab the girl and shake some sense into her.  A forum like this isn't the place for an attention-starved young girl to roam. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on December 20, 2004, 08:41:10 AM
To many ppl love/ like me. Thats why.. And if I kill myself.. then i would go to hell. My friends told me that if i kill myself, they would kill their selfs.. and i don't want that to happen.

LMFAO.

STUPID EFFING TEENY BOPPERS KEEP PISSING ME OFF.

you don't understand death. if you really wanted to die you wouldn't care about other people. you wouldn't really care about anything. so you obviously do NOT wanna die. and you're NOT gonna kill yourself. so please please please stop the drama. I am so sick of everyone saying "oh no! my day was so horrible! i'm gonna go chop myself into little pieces so everyone will be like 'awwww, poor <insert name of emo person here>' and then i'll feel better, but i'm still gonna wanna die"

people like you disgust me.

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tanoliko on December 20, 2004, 10:03:29 AM
Um...My love problems is...My head and heart don't agree?

And I can't figure out why certain people like me... :: cries ::

The end.

Actually I'm lucky. My "Best Friend" has horrible problems, this last guy she was with got drunk and hit her twice. That pissed me off to no end. The guy before him stole money from her to buy drugs. But It's also her own fault. She kept going back to that first guy, and the second, he's like 27 or 28, she just turned 19.
That was definatly a sign. he also caused us some fights, because she was always with him, and when she wasn't and wanted to hang out with me, I was trying to have fun with my other friends and she got mad.

Yay, guys suck, and women were put on earth to make men's lives difficult. It happens.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on December 20, 2004, 10:21:50 AM
not ALL guys suck. i mean, yeah relationships are hard and lots of shit happens. but nothing's ever totally perfect. like, i've gone out with a LOT of sucky ass guys and i've managed to find a guy who's somewhat decent ^.^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tanoliko on December 20, 2004, 10:44:19 AM
Oh i know that. But I just don't like the guy which is sweet and would do anything for me...and is a great guy. I just see him as a friend, and it's hard cause he just got out of a relationship with a slut that was doomed before he met her. I feel so mean. y.y

then my friends don't respect my decisions sometimes and are always saying what a sweet guy he is, and what a great boyfriend he would be. But I don't like him like that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 20, 2004, 10:55:38 AM
And it's crazy how that works, Tano. Stolen from Bash.org:
"A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired."
- I love that. I use it a lot...
That's how my ex seems to feel about me... She just sees me as a friend. I keep trying to change that, but I don't know what to do.
(Yes, the situation between her and I changes weekly- for those of you who've actually read my other posts in this thread...)

i've lost any sympathy and respect i once had for her.
You once had respect for her? Why?????
Angel, stop dating. You're not smart enough to handle it right now. Wait until you're like... 30, or something.
I'm 17, and I've been in one relationship my entire life. You're like 10, and have the makings of a whore.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on December 20, 2004, 10:59:19 AM
well, usually i don't automatically judge people. so when she was new here, it was like starting at zero on my board. but now she's dropped down to the negative thousands.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on December 20, 2004, 11:12:24 AM
first time i joined i couldnt stand her. *remembers the "I LOVE WAYA" thread* horribleness... she seriously thought i wanted to rape waya. what an idiot.

second time i joined, i thought she was an idiot and i ignored her.

third time i joined, i tried to be nice... but she's still an idiot
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on December 20, 2004, 02:13:02 PM
first time i joined i couldnt stand her. *remembers the "I LOVE WAYA" thread* horribleness... she seriously thought i wanted to rape waya. what an idiot.

second time i joined, i thought she was an idiot and i ignored her.

third time i joined, i tried to be nice... but she's still an idiot

Must be an innate trait.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on December 20, 2004, 02:14:39 PM
I think I would kill myself if I was your friend.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on December 20, 2004, 07:00:40 PM
angel, you have no friends.  if you do they must be just like you, and i can't possibly imagine the destructive stupid power of that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on December 21, 2004, 08:55:08 AM
That's kinda heartless.
I'm sure many peoples likes you Angel of the Moon.

*pat pat*

Heh, you need to come on more, Mimi.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: DangerGirlX on December 21, 2004, 11:37:11 PM
That's kinda heartless.
I'm sure many peoples likes you Angel of the Moon.

*pat pat*

Heh, you need to come on more, Mimi.

Hah.. seems like my comments aren't welcome.. haha look at what I started..

*whispers*

Many meanies..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tanoliko on December 22, 2004, 10:37:48 PM
Ok, here's the situation, while trying to cheer up my friend, which I call one of my best friends, I leak out that someone likes her. Now she wants to know. She keeps guessing and I give her hints. Only I don't know if I want her to find out or not. I'm not even sure about if she still likes her
ok the cat is out of the bag...
She knows it's me...i hope she doesn't hate me....

I told her...She doesn't care too much ^.^ happy day

Though everything is going to stay the same...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on December 29, 2004, 04:04:28 PM
ehh... I've been trying to go out with this one girl for a while, and we were supposed to go Christmas shopping together on last Tuesday or Thursday, but she never got back to me about it. Today I see her name come up on my aim list, and I IM her.
It's not her. It's Harlie's friend Randy. I talk to him for a while. He says she was pretty upset last week, and just got in her car and took off a few days before Christmas.... She's called them once, and is in Arizona for some reason.
He told me to call her cell, because she told him she made plans with some people, but she didn't get to keep them (Me......).
I'm going to call later. I'm kind of pissed off that she didn't tell me, but mostly just because I probably would have asked her to let me come along. Why shouldn't I? >_>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 05, 2005, 12:33:53 PM
OK this is to go off of what Angel said. Angel listen to me. It was wrong what you said but you can get over it. Death isn't worth it. It just isn't. There are alot of people  who care for you. LIKE ME FOR INSTANCE! Your a good friend. My love problems are simple. I can deal with most of them but one. I like this one girl but i like another one. Idk who to choose from.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on January 05, 2005, 04:46:36 PM
I know. I choose.. living!! ^^

I have a boyfriend, and... I like another guy. Just like Dakar's problem. -.-''
I like both so.. its.. hard for me to choose.

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 05, 2005, 07:32:39 PM
lol dont we all have those problems.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on January 05, 2005, 09:43:27 PM
Not really. Some people don't have anyone to choose from. Most people don't have anyone to choose from. >_>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on January 05, 2005, 09:59:03 PM
I don't really have relationship problems like everyone else seems to have. I'm in love with a girl. I really love her. However, when I'm away from her m love for her bring upon moods swings. One minute I'll feel great. Like, I've never been happier. The next, I'll feel like shit and the only thing I want is to be with her. It also doesn't help that I'm bi-polar so my mood swings are intense. Anyway, it sucks sometimes.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 06, 2005, 11:23:45 AM
Not really. Some people don't have anyone to choose from. Most people don't have anyone to choose from. >_>
And I am that person that doesn't have anyone to choose from.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 06, 2005, 01:09:22 PM
lol i have several. as you could prolly care. normally a guy shoudln't be crying but none of them are worth the time cause they will cheat. :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 06, 2005, 01:12:23 PM
That is messed up Dakar.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 06, 2005, 01:24:44 PM
Yeah, that is infact messed up. Sorry to hear that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 06, 2005, 06:56:23 PM
yah it is messed up and then another comes in.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 06, 2005, 11:29:57 PM
I don't know if I would call it "love" problems.

I think it's more of a pimp issue.
Or man-whore problem.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 07, 2005, 12:54:48 PM
more or less a PIMP issues. but i dont consider myself a pimp. more or less crush issues.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 08, 2005, 12:02:53 AM
or commitment issues.

then again i'm assuming most people here are too young to do the whole commitment thing in the first place.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 10, 2005, 12:51:13 PM
ay most aren't old enough but some are. I am 18
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: woodsyd on January 10, 2005, 01:57:43 PM
i don't think it's nessecarily just age it's also maturity level because just because you're 18 doesn't mean you're ready for commitment
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Yukio on January 10, 2005, 02:37:49 PM
Ya its always different for everyone. Hell some people never do mature.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 10, 2005, 08:06:53 PM
i don't think it's nessecarily just age it's also maturity level because just because you're 18 doesn't mean you're ready for commitment


this is true. but i don't know many 14 year olds (just an example) that are ready for commitment either. besides, it's never a good idea to really fully commit yourself at a young age... or at least that's how i feel.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 11, 2005, 01:04:50 PM
and i understand that some 18 year olds aren't ready to date.  but some are. I am ready for commitment.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: woodsyd on January 11, 2005, 05:31:52 PM
and i understand that some 18 year olds aren't ready to date. but some are.

We know this. No one ever said all 18 year olds weren't just some

I am ready for commitment.

umm....cool

i don't think it's nessecarily just age it's also maturity level because just because you're 18 doesn't mean you're ready for commitment


this is true. but i don't know many 14 year olds (just an example) that are ready for commitment either. besides, it's never a good idea to really fully commit yourself at a young age... or at least that's how i feel.

yes which is why age and maturity are both important factors *nods*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 12, 2005, 07:21:00 AM
lol of course age and maturity do hold a big part in it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 12, 2005, 08:42:22 AM
and i understand that some 18 year olds aren't ready to date. but some are. I am ready for commitment.

I am a 18 year old and part of the not ready (sort of). See I am ready to date but then again I am not. I am not looking for someone but if someone wants to date me I be willing. Right now my priorities are on school. But yeah I agree with everyone on this one.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 12, 2005, 12:51:31 PM
i am to the point that i am ready to commit. so yeah. my priorities are on school but i still see the point that i am ready and willing.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cresk on January 12, 2005, 12:56:42 PM
hmm the problem.... *locks all the doors so people cannot leave*  I just cant seem to talk to anybody.... I try but never really works out.. i just get looked upon with disdain and almost shame.... it hasnt worked out for me.... ive wanted to actually have somebody there to comfort and to be comforted by... but I have never really been able to work it out v.v
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 12, 2005, 01:00:58 PM
hmm the problem.... *locks all the doors so people cannot leave*  I just cant seem to talk to anybody.... I try but never really works out.. i just get looked upon with disdain and almost shame.... it hasnt worked out for me.... ive wanted to actually have somebody there to comfort and to be comforted by... but I have never really been able to work it out v.v

I feel your problem. cause i have that problem. first of all you just get a girl or 2 for friends and learn how to talk to them and then you can increase your confidence about talking to girls. just remember they are just human beings. yes they might have breasts(please dont be offended by this girls) and they dont have what we have but they are still people. just consider them people. not as a girl or anything more or less. and this is also a second opinion by my friend Sin/ Dale
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 12, 2005, 01:01:45 PM
*Aoshi tugs on the door* Let me out let me out!!!!! *Cresk looks at Aoshi*

Umm hehehe...j/k...lol seriously I am kidding

Your problem....question what do you say that makes people look upon you with disdain and shame?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 12, 2005, 01:05:29 PM
i'd say hold yourself to a higher accord. be yourself and not a pretender. dont put yourself down casue other people put you down. put yourself on high cause you are someone special.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 12, 2005, 01:09:24 PM
*crawls on the floor looking for a key and then bumps into Cresk; Cresk stares back*

ummmm...what to say....j/k hey if I am joking a lot tough.

I agree with Dakar. Listen to the almighty Lord Dakar. He knows what he is talking about. (No I am not getting off subject cause I am agreeing with Dakar)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cresk on January 12, 2005, 01:20:22 PM
*Aoshi tugs on the door* Let me out let me out!!!!! *Cresk looks at Aoshi*

Umm hehehe...j/k...lol seriously I am kidding

Your problem....question what do you say that makes people look upon you with disdain and shame?
almost anycomment i make.... cuz i am never really serious in a discussion... specially when everybodies mood is down...  (i don't like people being depressed when around me so i try to raise spirits whenever possible)  its something that people obviously don't care for because they think i cant be serious at all... and being depressed doesnt help me at all..  so thats why i raise spirits... cuz when i get home... i mope around... not a fun person to be around at all
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 12, 2005, 01:25:08 PM
You just described me too dude

In that case... What you need to do is just watch your jokes. What may seem funny to you is not to them. If you are talking to one or two people specify your jokes to the person (or people depending on the situation). I used to have the same problem. Eventually you will get a sense for what people want in jokes at that moment. I hope you can understand this because as I am typing I don't understand lol
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cresk on January 12, 2005, 01:26:22 PM
You just described me too dude

In that case... What you need to do is just watch your jokes. What may seem funny to you is not to them. If you are talking to one or two people specify your jokes to the person (or people depending on the situation). I used to have the same problem. Eventually you will get a sense for what people want in jokes at that moment. I hope you can understand this because as I am typing I don't understand lol
3/4's of the people laugh so they work ^.^ its just after the fact people glare at me... its never at the joke... its at the fact that i am trying to raise spirits
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 12, 2005, 01:31:16 PM
Well....I don't know...I am speechless.... I have seen that before. It happens to me occasionally. My suggestion would be just walk away and in your head think screw them... but with your "feeling gloomy" attitude because the person's spirit didn't raise it is kinda pointless to take my suggestion. I learned that if a person still seems pissed off then leave em alone. Some people need space. It varies among everyone. Hell I need space sometimes so if someone is raising my spirits with a joke I laugh but I am still not happy. Remember this: Everyone says laughter is the cure for everything (that is what I heard), well they are wrong. There are sometimes when laughter can't cure at all.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 12, 2005, 06:02:06 PM
*crawls on the floor looking for a key and then bumps into Cresk; Cresk stares back*

ummmm...what to say....j/k hey if I am joking a lot tough.

I agree with Dakar. Listen to the almighty Lord Dakar. He knows what he is talking about. (No I am not getting off subject cause I am agreeing with Dakar)

First, I must say, that is a lame excuse for saying you're not getting off topic.  But that's just what I think.

As for Cresk, you can't cheer everyone up.  If you find someone you're comfortable around, and you know they'll accept you for who you are, take a chance.  If you're not going to take a chance, you'll never know for sure.

Besides, can't you at least give the people around you a chance to get to know you?  Don't you trust them enough that they'll like you for you?  You just can't assume that people won't like you.  You never tried, therefore you wouldn't know.  Also, I've always told this to people who tried to covince me that they're assholes...people have different perspectives.  You may think and feel that they see you like this or that, but in reality, they might see you differently.  Who knows.

--I have no idea if my "advice" pertains to the subject.  Reading those replies, it just got so jumbled, so I'm just providing general advice.

I can't say to not be a "pretender" or to be "yourself," since some people are themselves by pretending, but you never know if there's this one person that likes you for being the person you are.

*shrugs*
:)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 13, 2005, 12:13:51 PM
lol sorry about that getting off topic thing. well problems liek these need confidence. but if you reallyt hink of it, it isn't getting off topic. just think of it this way. its all the same. you need the confidence to get the girls or to talk to people of all sorts of sexes and areas. and with the you might think its funny and they dont' thing. well just tell yourself that it is funny and forget about it. if people judge you for what you say or do then they are not worth it. trust me on that one. also do what you wanna do. what is a few years at high school compared to LIFE!! We are here to have fun. not to follow the mindless asses.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cresk on January 13, 2005, 01:23:33 PM
i dont follow the masses... i mean i joined the Marines for god sakes... everybody at my school hates the military and republicans... (maybe thats why they hate me)  and our gun toting meat eating ways....  i hope that maybe After my time in the marines i will be able to do something productive with my love life
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 13, 2005, 01:27:44 PM
i dont follow the masses... i mean i joined the Marines for god sakes... everybody at my school hates the military and republicans... (maybe thats why they hate me) and our gun toting meat eating ways.... i hope that maybe After my time in the marines i will be able to do something productive with my love life

I can relate to that cause we live in the same state. You can definately tell the Washington hates repubs cause look what they did with the governers race. They put Gregoire in office (though I voted for her, I am really disliking her now). Have fun in the Marines. They will give you balls of steel so you can get yourself a girlfriend. Your love problems will definately be over after the Marines. Have fun  ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 14, 2005, 12:08:55 PM
lol dont be a trend setter or follow the trend be your own man or woman. whatever the case just be you
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: woodsyd on January 15, 2005, 01:39:38 PM
preach man preach
yeah most people (well at least me) don't want to be with fake people
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 15, 2005, 11:35:49 PM
ok. i've got a problem. finally. not sure if it's smart to post it here but... yeah. i'm also not using names.


well, i'm in a long distance relationship with someone. he happens to be 5 years older than me (21) and lives aaaaall the way in washington while i'm in illinois. we both love eachother very much, and he's pretty much everything to me... he's visiting a few more times and then when he turns 22 he wants to move out here.

but now i kinda have a thing for a friend of mine... and i know it's almost always bad if it's for someone you're friends with. i already had that problem with another friend of mine, but we worked it all out and now we're good friends. anyway.

so i have a thing for this guy. and sometimes i think it might not be so bad to leave the relationship i'm in and go and be with him... buuuttt i know it would break the other guy's heart into little pieces, and it would make me feel even worse to know i did such a thing. i mean, i'm the only person this guy has ever loved so seriously.

but i think it might just be the distance thing. i knew from the get go that long distance relationships are generally a bad idea. but i wanted to do it anyway i guess... but the fact that i can't see him physically at all makes it feel like it's not actually a relationship. so it's kind of easy to fall for someone i know in person while i'm with him....


and blah. it sucks. but i'm thinking of ignoring the whole thing because it's probably nothing, and i'd rather keep my friend than take the chance of losing him. and i don't want to hurt the one in washington.

n stuff. it's just a little frustrating right now, because i hang out with this guy a lot..... and my friends... we're all pretty explicit and comfortable with our sexuality... make your own conclusions on that i guess. but it doesn't really make it any easier.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 16, 2005, 02:32:41 AM
Heh, this sounds all too familiar.

I don't want to really give you advice.  I'd rather tell you the short version of my story, and then you can derive any advice that you might've gotten out of it, if any.

I was in a long distance relationship, with a guy from Washington state.  Living in NY, and being a junior/senior in high school, I took my chances, though I had recently gotten out of a terrible long distance relationship.

We were dating for 1-2 years and seen each other a few times before I went to college.  I thought I loved him, he thought he loved me, but, I met a guy in college and started to hang out with him everyday, see him everyday, eat with him everyday and do everything with him.  He liked me, and subconciously, I liked him.  I thought I should keep him as a friend, so I ignored my feelings for him, thinking that it was wrong to like him since I already had someone.  I thought that since I was already dating someone, I shouldn't have thoughts about another guy, so I pushed him away.  Quite harshly, might I say.

However, my boyfriend at the time, saw and was broken everytime I hung out with the guy at college.  But he came to understand that we were growing apart and we started to have our differences.  We had both changed, and to make a long story short, we mutually ended it.  We couldn't take the long distance, and we couldn't bear seeing each other only 3-4 times per year, if lucky.

We thought we'd stay friends, but right now, we're not.  He's avoiding me, and doesn't talk to me whatsoever.  *shrug*

I'm dating the guy that liked me though.  I caused him more pain than needed, however he still liked me through it.

I don't know what kind of advice you got out of that, if any, but the reason I didn't want to tell you advice was because your situation is completely different from mine, and to offer advice out of my experience would be plain stupid.

--For one, you'll probably be more likely to stay friends with the guy you're dating if you guys were to break up.  And vise versa with the other guy.
--For two, I doubt you'll hurt the friend you have an interest in.

Heh, I lied.  My general advice is to take it slow, and to not ignore your feelings. :P
As much as you can hurt the one you're currently dating, you might experience a lot more pain later inflicted upon yourself.

--I'd give more details, but I doubt you'd want to hear them ^_^ Teehee.
Besides, it's 5:40 and I doubt I make any sense. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 16, 2005, 09:41:16 AM
My friends, long distance relationships don't work.  No matter how much you try to convince yourself otherwise, they don't.

cynical monkey: (if you are in fact cynical) you would realize that your 22 year old boyfriend is probably playing you on the side with another chick.  Maybe I'm wrong, and maybe he wasn't born a man...but the Axioms of Men state that it's okay to have a girl for every area code  ;D.   Him being so much older than you is another problem.   So what should you do?  Play him before you get played yourself.  Start getting better acquinted with the friend that you like.  This way, you are keeping your options open.  Hence, once you find out about your boyfriend's mistress(es), all will not be at a loss.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 16, 2005, 12:21:42 PM
i find ruri's advice much more helpful than yours.


well the way i'm looking at it is i'm still young and i shouldn't really worry about it that much. and monkeys.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 16, 2005, 03:34:32 PM
i find ruri's advice much more helpful than yours.


well the way i'm looking at it is i'm still young and i shouldn't really worry about it that much. and monkeys.

Mine was not an advice, more of a reality check (or worse case scenario if you're feeling optimistic about things).

But this year is the Year of the Rooster, and my Chinese Geomancy skills tell me that if you're not a rooster, and if you don't look like a rooster, your luck in love will be nil.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 16, 2005, 03:54:01 PM
well fuck.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 16, 2005, 07:23:50 PM
well let me take a crack at it and let me preach ;D...
well here we go...
see i know what your going throuhg. i felt the same way that you do. except the fact that it was opposite. its hard to do i know. the only thing that i can reallly tell you is that, its a slim chance that long distance will work. the one that i am in right now is going to work cause i've already promised alot. but oh well. just follow your gut instinct. even though alot of people shun the LD relationship doesn't mean it might not work. jsut stay true to yourself.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 16, 2005, 09:34:34 PM
it is a little easier that the person i'm falling for is a good friend of mine... because i know he'd probably do the "let's stay friends" thing. plus, i have a feeling i'm not his type anyway. and i'm sure my other friend likes him as well... which is funny, because she's in a long distance thing too. she's been talking about her commitment issues, which is why i'm kinda thinking she likes this guy or at least someone else.

i'm saying too much though...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 16, 2005, 10:45:51 PM

But this year is the Year of the Rooster, and my Chinese Geomancy skills tell me that if you're not a rooster, and if you don't look like a rooster, your luck in love will be nil.


Is it really the year of the rooster?  <<;  I should really know this stuff.
All I know is that it lands on February 9th ^^;

Nikki:  Well, then for the most part, problem solved! ;D  Hope all goes well


the one that i am in right now is going to work cause i've already promised alot.

Umm...promises alone?  I don't know how that'll keep a relationship together.  *shrugs* Though, in general, I didn't really understand your advice at all. ^^;

...Not that mine made much sense. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 17, 2005, 12:32:27 PM
or your friend has cheated on her bf or visa versa. whatever the case is.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 17, 2005, 12:43:00 PM
it is a little easier that the person i'm falling for is a good friend of mine... because i know he'd probably do the "let's stay friends" thing. plus, i have a feeling i'm not his type anyway. and i'm sure my other friend likes him as well... which is funny, because she's in a long distance thing too. she's been talking about her commitment issues, which is why i'm kinda thinking she likes this guy or at least someone else.

i'm saying too much though...

OMGF! sKLjfslkdfjslkjfalsk jfasodgjfslkdfjsdlkfjsdlfgkjdflkgjsdfg. holy shit i need to check back here more often.... are you talking about who i think youre talking about? omg. shit. i need to talk to you. *falls over and dies multiple times* dl gkjsfdlkgjdfg
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 17, 2005, 12:44:51 PM
DAMN!!! :oCALM DOWN!! Please. lol
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 17, 2005, 12:48:46 PM
you dont understand. unless im TOTALLY insane the other friend she's talking about is me... *falls over laughing* sorry >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on January 17, 2005, 12:59:23 PM
I love somebody who doesn't even know my name or how I look like. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 17, 2005, 01:02:16 PM
well lost your in a bind. as for you Jennifer. well just calm down anyway. i love someoen who knows me for who i really am.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on January 17, 2005, 01:07:32 PM
I was only kidding.  Every guy in school and around my neighborhood know me...not in a good way though.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 17, 2005, 01:08:02 PM
fuck. i was hoping you wouldn't see that post jennifer... since you haven't been here in forever. blah.

i hope i haven't made any stupid assumptions. you can kill me if i did...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 17, 2005, 01:20:12 PM
doo dee doo. time for a subject change.

my lovey problems. hm... lets see.

nothing.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 17, 2005, 01:47:30 PM
love is best when it's fresh, new, and true...

but after it's been tainted or left to rot... that's when it gets ugly.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 17, 2005, 07:51:21 PM
lol love sucks sometime.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 17, 2005, 08:12:39 PM
Do I smell a love triangle brewing?!!? monkey - ??? - caring

This sounds like a great manga in the making. >.>


And ruri, it is the year of the rooster :P .. cuz there's a big cock on this 2005 scroll calendar that I picked up at the local Chinese marketplace.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 17, 2005, 08:27:42 PM
And ruri, it is the year of the rooster :P .. cuz there's a big cock on this 2005 scroll calendar that I picked up at the local Chinese marketplace.

How sexy.
That is great to know.  I probably should have picked one up myself at Chinatown today.  Damm.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 18, 2005, 04:25:44 AM
lol oh god.  ???idk what to say anymore.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 18, 2005, 07:22:08 AM
lol oh god.  ???idk what to say anymore.

Simple.  Then stfu. :)

Or simply don't say anything, if you don't know, or don't have anything to say. :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 18, 2005, 11:31:11 AM
I'm in a love triangle.. between two people i like. not saying gender or names. but they know who they are. so yeah...if anyone could give me some adive other than follow your heart i would appreciate.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 18, 2005, 11:45:22 AM
I say go with the good ol list idea. You list off which person as better qualities. Pull out a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle; then on one side put one person and on the other put the other person. Then start listing off good qualities about each person. It is not the most effective and most "feeling great" thing(forgot the word) but it still works (most of the time anyway). Good Luck.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 18, 2005, 12:11:57 PM
no comment cause yeah. i know who they are. i dont want to stfu.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 18, 2005, 01:40:44 PM
I say go with the good ol list idea. You list off which person as better qualities. Pull out a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle; then on one side put one person and on the other put the other person. Then start listing off good qualities about each person. It is not the most effective and most "feeling great" thing(forgot the word) but it still works (most of the time anyway). Good Luck.


heh, the funny thing is, i got the exact opposite of this advice for my problem. i was told that it doesn't work very well.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 18, 2005, 01:44:56 PM
when was that cause I used it before and it worked quite well and I know several others who used it and it worked lol  ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 18, 2005, 02:00:40 PM
i guess it all depends on the people you're using it on...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on January 18, 2005, 02:52:07 PM
Hrm... good luck to Nikki, Jennifer, Ryan, and the other two guys involved, it seems. <<

And I don't have lovey problems.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on January 19, 2005, 10:09:59 AM
me either, thank god...the less complication in life, the better
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 19, 2005, 11:50:07 AM
hmm...... sounded confising at first... but like... lol... i think i might give it a try.... thanks.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 19, 2005, 01:01:35 PM
lol yeah good job.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 19, 2005, 02:12:31 PM
well i decided to end things with the long distance guy. i really don't like having to do long distance crap...

just thought i'd let you all know. whoo. i'm a monkey.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 19, 2005, 04:26:12 PM
well i decided to end things with the long distance guy. i really don't like having to do long distance crap...

just thought i'd let you all know. whoo. i'm a monkey.

WOW I DIDN'T SEE THAT COMING FROM A MILE AWAY! :P

Man, sometimes I feel bad for being right ALL the time >_>

(but seriously monkey, i think it's for the better.  Since you are a monkey, my Chinese geomancy tells me that you are compatible with Rats and Dragons.  Arithmetic tells me that your ex-bf who's 5 years older than you is neither a rat nor a dragon.  So yeah, we chinese are never wrong, and that relationship would never be able to work out =/ )
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 19, 2005, 05:17:25 PM
yeah ... except i'm not a monkey, i'm a dragon.

i just like monkeys.


anyway. i know that it was probably the right thing to do. i don't want to hold myself back from real life experiences... and living on the internet is a good preventative for that. blah.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 19, 2005, 07:29:02 PM
lol yea. lol idk what the hell is going on anymore
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 19, 2005, 07:59:51 PM
yeah ... except i'm not a monkey, i'm a dragon.

i just like monkeys.


anyway. i know that it was probably the right thing to do. i don't want to hold myself back from real life experiences... and living on the internet is a good preventative for that. blah.

yar.. there's always cyber >.>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 19, 2005, 08:09:39 PM
which is extremely pointless. but it's fun to read it when people act really weird. yay.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 19, 2005, 08:22:45 PM
lol, you should ask charles for this cyber session he had on ICQ..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 19, 2005, 09:16:53 PM
oh god

charles + cyber =

....


i have no idea.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 20, 2005, 04:35:23 AM
i dont wanna know.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 20, 2005, 04:06:17 PM
please dont tell me charles cybers...

*is extremely confuzzled*

but anyway... i was at a chinese restaurant today for lunch and it had those paper mat thingys that have your chinese zodiac stuffs on it and it said i dont like cock. yeah... *is a bunny* ^.^ yay!

Do I smell a love triangle brewing?!!? monkey - ??? - caring

nikkis my lesbian lover

Hrm... good luck to Nikki, Jennifer, Ryan, and the other two guys involved, it seems. <<

me and ryan are totally fine... we're better than fine... idk. its just REALLY nice right now. im just scared its gonna change >.< like the majority of my relationships >.<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cgoten on January 20, 2005, 05:46:26 PM
lol, you should ask charles for this cyber session he had on ICQ..

lol, yeah. That was hilarious. Even Roots could respect the awesomeness of that, and he's like, humor-inept.

Anyway... Yeah... This thread... >_>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 20, 2005, 05:48:34 PM
yeah... this thread...

i have to agree with you there.


and yet i posted in it anyways.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 20, 2005, 05:57:30 PM
damn, doesn't anyone have anymore "lovey problems" for me? it's like my geomancy powers are wasted here >.>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 20, 2005, 07:29:52 PM
love freaking hurts! remind me never to fall in love again.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 20, 2005, 08:11:20 PM
love freaking hurts! remind me never to fall in love again.

you're too young to fall in love >_> lolz
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 20, 2005, 08:28:54 PM
everyone thinks they know what love is... pff.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 08:56:10 AM
No one knows what true love is until they have experienced true love. If you believe in soul mates that is true love
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on January 21, 2005, 10:18:38 AM
love freaking hurts! remind me never to fall in love again.

you're too young to fall in love >_> lolz
i still say it hurts...and it also sucks.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on January 21, 2005, 11:14:41 AM
No one knows what true love is until they have experienced true love. If you believe in soul mates that is true love
You're a loser.

Got that one for you, cccnnn.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 11:18:01 AM
No one knows what true love is until they have experienced true love. If you believe in soul mates that is true love
You're a loser.

Got that one for you, cccnnn.

That was pretty mean dude and I was just saying I don't actually believe in soulmates dude.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on January 21, 2005, 11:21:43 AM
Depending on the tone and body language used, dude can mean:

    * Hey! Look over here! (DUDE!)
    * Shame on you! (Duuuuude (with head shaking))
    * Are you ok? (Dude?)
    * Wake up. (dooooooooode)
    * That is very cool! (doooode)
    * Oh my god. [expressing shock] (duuuude...)

This use of the term with body language was probably best demonstrated in the movie BASEketball where the two lead characters have an entire argument consisting entirely of the word "dude" with various inflections.

Ahahahaha, but to get back on topic... love, etc. Go.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 11:26:24 AM
duuuuude *shaking head*

Anyway... love is a difficult issue in which we all should have a debate on  :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 21, 2005, 12:37:25 PM
some more than others.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Sin on January 21, 2005, 02:13:51 PM
No one knows what true love is until they have experienced true love. If you believe in soul mates that is true love

True love? It's hard to experience such a thing since one could believe they could have experienced it from many different points of views. You see, not always things like that happen.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 02:25:24 PM
eeehhhh man I am starting to hate philosphy or whatever you wanna call it. Ummm....I guess it goes by someone's point of view again. So ur right there is no real true love. It is a sham, a hoax, a fake....you get the picture
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Sin on January 21, 2005, 02:28:08 PM
Actually, it's just what one wants to call their reality. Nothing more. If you believe in love, then I guess you can have 'true love' but other wise it's just an emotion that just has some added effect.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 02:29:54 PM
Again that is one person's point of view like urs. Mine is you can't experience true love unless you truley feel you can't love another person like you loved the other
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Sin on January 21, 2005, 02:32:16 PM
Again with my 'perspective' as you want to call it. Like I say, I only look at things logically, not really with my own opinion. If I did that, things would be simplier on your own mind.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 21, 2005, 02:32:38 PM
does anyone here watch penn and teller bullshit? they did an episode about love once... and pretty much proved that humans have a really weird misconception of what love is. and about true love and all that crapizzle.

eh, just admit that it's the raging hormones telling you to go and screw like bunnies. i guess love can be a real thing too, but relationships without sex usually don't work out if you know what i mean...


ugh my brain is scattered right now so i probably didn't make much sense. don't feel like checking.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Sin on January 21, 2005, 02:34:28 PM
eh, just admit that it's the raging hormones telling you to go and screw like bunnies. i guess love can be a real thing too, but relationships without sex usually don't work out if you know what i mean...

That's an interesting way of putting it... and no, I haven't seen this Penn and Teller Bullshit as you put it... o.o;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 21, 2005, 02:39:34 PM
I've seen part of an episode funny but tired outta my skull to watch it.

Yeah I guess your right screwing each other is the only why for a relationship to stay alive though if you just screw each other it is just an affair. Lots of talking is needed and normally that evolves into love.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 21, 2005, 02:57:41 PM
i don't mean just sex. i mean a relationship needs sex to survive, not just sweet little nothings being whispered into ears... know what i mean?

anyway. sin, penn and teller bullshit is a tv show on showtime. they basically find something that they think is complete bullshit and prove it. like the concept of recycling, for instance.


oh and i'm not saying that love isn't real, just that people sometimes get so dramatic about it. saying all this true love stuff. when usually it's just a silly fantasy...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on January 21, 2005, 06:07:44 PM
Hahaha, if you lived in Texas, I'd rape you. : D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 21, 2005, 10:22:08 PM
it's not rape if it's wanted!


HAR.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 24, 2005, 12:47:26 PM
yeah but if age is far it can be considered statitory rape.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 24, 2005, 02:12:01 PM
pff not like i'm gonna report it to the cops.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 25, 2005, 12:05:46 PM
yeah thas kewl though. although i got an old guy to admit age isn't shit.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 25, 2005, 12:09:23 PM
HUH? what do you mean gramps would go out with a 14 year old just for the hell of it??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 25, 2005, 12:12:34 PM
no. his granddaughter is 14 and she is going out with an 18 y ear old guy. so yeah. its kewl though.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 25, 2005, 02:21:11 PM
aaanyway.


i don't know if i'm just bad at reading signs (like body language etc) or if i'm right or what...

remember the guy i mentioned before, that i have a thing for now? well... it feels like sometimes he might like me too. but then sometimes he talks about girls to or around me. like he was walking with me to my locker today at lunch, and he was telling me about this pretty girl...asking if i knew her. and it was kind of weird. but then last night he called me out of the blue just to talk. and  he's never done that ever before. in fact, we've never talked on the phone for longer than 2 minutes before that call.

heh, and today at lunch he was telling me a weird story about a guy trying to grope people on a train.. and kept putting his hand on my leg/knee and all that to demonstrate. haha but i kept thinking he's just using the story as an excuse to touch me.

and basically, he and i are just talking a lot more than we used to. and about a lot of weird stuff, like he keeps asking me if i think he comes off as an ass hole or a loser or whatever... stuff to boost his self esteem (because i always reassure him that he's an awesome guy). a lot of "serious" stuff.

i might say something this weekend. we're going sledding maybe, and since two of my friends i go to school with know about this situation, they might help me out with getting the guy to not be distracted by everyone else so we can have a private talk...

and blah :P it would be nice if things happened, but i keep getting a feeling that i'm assuming all the wrong things. i just don't want to wait too long to say something, though... and then i'm afraid that he's not interested in me that way at all and i'll just end up embarassing myself. this has happened before with me and a different guy, but that was a less serious situation i guess...


aaand monkeys. i didn't use any names in order to protect privacy etc etc... yep.

i know no one really cares about this stuff, but i feel like i have to get it out somewhere... somewhere i know it's at least a little safe from the eyes of people i know at school...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on January 25, 2005, 02:23:20 PM
I say just go for it.  ;D

Good Luck  ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 25, 2005, 02:24:59 PM
i probably will. i'll be nervous out of my freakin mind though and end up saying something stupid instead of whatever i plan. hah..

my photos teacher said the same thing. because i was talking to one of the friends who knows about all this and she overheard me.

me: i don't know if i should say something to him or not...
teacher: ALWAYS say something. no matter what.


so i'm going to gather up as much courage as i can...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cgoten on January 25, 2005, 02:49:25 PM
Eh, I probably shouldn't give any advice about anything ever, but, IMO, whenever you've gotta say something important, but you're having trouble saying, it's easier to mention in a casual conversation rather than specifically talking to someone for the sole purpose of whatever you're trying to say, you know? Like... Start off talking about something else, then let the conversation drift where you want it to.

But whatever, don't listen to me.  :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 25, 2005, 03:26:42 PM
yo, you're taking advice from your teacher??? what good does that ever do?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 25, 2005, 04:10:20 PM
heh, well she's an awesome teacher. and besides, she's not a typical teacher... she's a photography teacher. she and i are often on the same level, and i pretty much look up to her... as i have with all my worthy art teachers.


anyway.


charles, that's interesting advice... it's kind of weird though. i mean, it's not really something you slip into a casual conversation i guess... but if you mean you start off with a related topic and then slip it in, then i guess it makes sense.

i don't know.


i'll figure it out...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 25, 2005, 07:58:22 PM
jennifer to the rescue! me and <insert name here> are friends. i'll help i'll help ^.^ oy... i luff boyses *grins*

and i'll make sure you get him alone on friday ^.^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on January 25, 2005, 08:42:19 PM
hehe, good times. oy i'm gonna be so nervous though...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 26, 2005, 05:08:13 PM
jennifer to the rescue! me and <insert name here> are friends. i'll help i'll help ^.^ oy... i luff boyses *grins*

and i'll make sure you get him alone on friday ^.^

you're gonna fuck this up for her.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 28, 2005, 10:12:27 PM
no im not. punk. cuz i couldnt go out today anyway. so poo on your face.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: JaisBane on January 29, 2005, 10:47:31 AM
Jennifer, that was awesome, in reward I present you with the Yanime Golden Pwn Award.  Good Job.

(http://pictureposter.allbrand.nu/pictures/Waya475/Untitled-1%20copy.png)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on January 30, 2005, 11:04:09 AM
lmfao. omg i feel so speshul :P

thats the most retarded thing ive ever seen.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on January 30, 2005, 07:53:55 PM
aww...i try so hard to pwn n00bs and i do it so often, yet i still haven't won that lovely golden pwn award
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on January 31, 2005, 01:02:06 PM
dont need to pwn them they do it themself. you just have to pick up on the areas.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on January 31, 2005, 01:59:14 PM
they do it themselves, but you have to play off of it.  take a shit on their mistakes and rub it in their faces.  that is the true art of t3h pwn
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 31, 2005, 04:09:40 PM
For now, we'll just stick to love problems, eh? :P

I would post general love problems, but I'd feel awkward doing so.
o_O;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on January 31, 2005, 05:09:48 PM
do tell, it makes for good gossip/discussions/pwnage opportunities
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on January 31, 2005, 11:34:10 PM
do tell, it makes for good gossip/discussions/pwnage opportunities

That's one very good reason I would not mention my love problems.
Don't want my ass raped, kthxbye. ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on February 01, 2005, 01:07:30 PM
*starts to chant Rape is bad* hey waht it is.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Angel of the moon on February 16, 2005, 06:57:43 PM
Well.. to start things off. My ex boyfriend was stalking me.. and over obsessed. Soooo.... I broke up with him. Now.. he's stil obsessed with me. Not leaving me alone... trying to spend every fucking hour with me. It get annoying. -.-'
How do i solve this?

2nd.. my friend ( fake name ) Kat and her boyfriend ( fake also ) Tom. Kat was mad at Tom.. sooo she was planning to break up with him. Soo i was in the middle of it. Tom found out... and stared yelling at Kat.. and then Kat got mad at me.  Now i'm pissed. Tom called Kat.. and talked it over. Kat said she was sorry.. but.. i don/t belive it... and now... my nuckles hurt cause i punched the wall!!!!! I'm still alittle upset about this whole thing. What should i do!?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on February 16, 2005, 07:18:10 PM
You could always get a restraining order put on the guy. That always does the trick. ;) I have no idea about the second one though, sorry. :-\
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on February 17, 2005, 04:39:32 AM
Well.. to start things off. My ex boyfriend was stalking me.. and over obsessed. Soooo.... I broke up with him. Now.. he's stil obsessed with me. Not leaving me alone... trying to spend every fucking hour with me. It get annoying. -.-'
How do i solve this?

2nd.. my friend ( fake name ) Kat and her boyfriend ( fake also ) Tom. Kat was mad at Tom.. sooo she was planning to break up with him. Soo i was in the middle of it. Tom found out... and stared yelling at Kat.. and then Kat got mad at me.  Now i'm pissed. Tom called Kat.. and talked it over. Kat said she was sorry.. but.. i don/t belive it... and now... my nuckles hurt cause i punched the wall!!!!! I'm still alittle upset about this whole thing. What should i do!?

Breathe deeply and calmly. dont hit the wall cause that pisses you off sometines even more. Just hink through everyhting ok. just try to stay calm. just talk to your friend (Kat). Try to talk things out with her.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tenchisama on February 17, 2005, 08:23:25 AM
hey why dosent somebody try to PWN me ;D
im a noob...
I mean look at my post count ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on February 18, 2005, 06:40:17 AM
hey why dosent somebody try to PWN me ;D
im a noob...
I mean look at my post count ;D

How about if you stay on topic. :P You know better.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 19, 2005, 05:37:13 PM
hey why dosent somebody try to PWN me ;D
im a noob...
I mean look at my post count ;D

How about if you stay on topic. :P You know better.

How about you try to call me when you say you will.  You know better. ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on February 19, 2005, 05:55:48 PM
owned!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on February 19, 2005, 06:08:40 PM
hey why dosent somebody try to PWN me ;D
im a noob...
I mean look at my post count ;D

Look at my post count.

PWNT?  My intuition points to "yes".
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on February 22, 2005, 08:10:57 PM
So how many boyfriends am I allowed to have?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on February 22, 2005, 09:01:01 PM
What someone doesn't know can't hurt them....
remember that magical sentence..
What someone doesn't know can't hurt them....

And you can have as many boyfriends as you like as long as he doesn't know. I mean you can't possibly be faithful (I assume you are not really old and thus will talk to you as if you were 16-15)(I am also to lazy to go and look at your profile) at your age. You have so many experiences to try and guys to tame....(lol) Just have your fun for now.. when your older and you really want a steady relationship and stuff, well then communication, honesty and having a single boyfriend/girlfriend are major points for it to work.

You can also look at it from this angle...
You care about your relationship and this guy= no other boyfriends
You care about him but you care about you more = a lot of boyfriends
You don't really care about him... = infinite amount of boyfriends.
See... now if your looking for some male material I can assume that you must see me as a potential male attendant.... (lol im only joking)

Anyways go fish.....and get a big one!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 22, 2005, 09:48:15 PM
I made out wih my best friend. XD How At first I didn't mind, but finding out I am LIKED by my best friend? Gah!!! I am idiot. XDDD
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on February 23, 2005, 08:45:46 AM
The here is the solution, do you like your friend that way. Answer urself that and u have ur answer.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 11:31:39 AM
I made out wih my best friend. XD How At first I didn't mind, but finding out I am LIKED by my best friend? Gah!!! I am idiot. XDDD

well i imagine if he made out with you he doesn't think you're too ass-ugly. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 23, 2005, 02:18:37 PM
He is a she and I like her...but not as much as my boyfriend. The making out part I don't mine. I mean WOW!!! XDDD I loved it. But knowing that she liked me. No no no...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 02:23:09 PM
i bet you if you tell your boyfriend he'll love it.  i know that if my girlfriend called me and told me she just made out with her best friend it would be one of the best days of my life.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 23, 2005, 02:28:01 PM
I figured that out the next day. -.- I know he'll just love it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 02:38:48 PM
hopefully your friend likes him too, cause he's gonna wanna be in on this.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 23, 2005, 02:49:48 PM
He would just want that, wouldn't he? Too bad. His birthday sucked. I mean no porno AT ALL!!! Not even beer. Come on. For my birthday I'm going to force him to strip for me and have tons of porno....and beer. -.-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 03:57:54 PM
lol, why would you be so cruel to him?  let him get a piece or two, lol
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 23, 2005, 04:21:33 PM
XD He didn't have any porno. I know he had some somewhere in his house. I know him...He better be not hiding them from me.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 07:51:16 PM
if you don't want him to have porno you should make some with you (and possibly your friend) for him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 23, 2005, 07:52:18 PM
if you don't want him to have porno you should make some with you (and possibly your friend) for him.

haha, that'll be interesting.

And then share it on the internet for all to see and masturbate to. ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 07:55:19 PM
thatta girl ruri, way to be thinking along the right lines!  *pats on back*  now this girl knows men...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 23, 2005, 07:57:28 PM
thatta girl ruri, way to be thinking along the right lines!  *pats on back*  now this girl knows men...

Yea, I'm sure Peter would be proud ::)

Now to go find another short, curvy asian girl to make out with and bring home with me...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on February 23, 2005, 08:09:49 PM
if you don't want him to have porno you should make some with you (and possibly your friend) for him.

Ha! How do you know if I haven't already?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 23, 2005, 08:22:07 PM
i don't know, but i do know that if you did you need to put it out on the internet, or at least send me a copy. ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on February 25, 2005, 07:09:40 AM
Well if you did do it already with him Lost, I don't think he would feel the need for porno. I mean if you can please him enough there is no need for that.
In other words if you did and he still does, well....you must not be very good.
Lol. anyways...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 25, 2005, 07:31:55 AM
hahaha, way to be consoling zell
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 25, 2005, 02:52:15 PM
Eh, whether you're "good" or not. 
Imo, boys will never get tired of porn.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 25, 2005, 08:10:36 PM
some of it is tasteless and downright disgusting...you just have to find the right stuff.  i recommend "the masseuse" with jenna jameson. ^_^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on February 25, 2005, 08:22:35 PM
you don't know disgusting til you get exposed to the really nasty fetishes...


and no. you don't want to know.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 25, 2005, 09:01:52 PM
eww...i have been.  lol, once one of my friend d/led some porn (thinking it was normal) and he said it was good...until all of a sudden this dog showed up...i don't think i need to describe the rest, lol, but you get the idea.  we mess with him for "watching dog porn", lol...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on February 25, 2005, 10:16:06 PM
haha that's pretty bad... but there are fetishes far, FAR worse than that...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 25, 2005, 11:00:19 PM
like r kelly pissing on girls and taking shits on their chests...hahahahahha, thank you dave chappelle for opening my eyes to this hilarious fact!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on February 26, 2005, 01:21:13 PM
oh there is worse stuff than that. trust me on this one.


.... yeah.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on February 26, 2005, 01:49:50 PM
*trys to find out what's worse by bugging nikki on aim*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on February 27, 2005, 08:59:58 AM
So how many boyfriends am I allowed to have?

Well I have two now but the first one isn't so happy about it so I might only have one soon.

I did the long distance thing for a year and a half, and I guess I just couldn't do it. Oh well.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cabbit on February 27, 2005, 09:22:58 AM
So how many boyfriends am I allowed to have?

Well I have two now but the first one isn't so happy about it so I might only have one soon.

I did the long distance thing for a year and a half, and I guess I just couldn't do it. Oh well.

Well, You have to be careful. If your relationship is not going to be exclusive, you have to make sure that the guys you are with know that. Most people when you say "you're my boyfriend" take that to mean that they are your only boyfriend. Finding out this isn't the case is going to hurt. A LOT.

I'm sure you don't want to hurt the people you have a romantic interest in.

My advice is to refrain from using the word boyfriend unless you are exclusively commited, and if you do use the word, you have to make it absolutely clear that to all involved you are still open to other guys. I warn you that most guys aren't going to be happy with this.

.. and if you do have an exclusive boyfriend, and later find yourself entertaining another, you have to let both know the situation. Otherwise you're going to hurt the guys you are trying to love, and in the worst way.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on February 27, 2005, 11:19:47 AM
Well honestly I'm sorry but I don't think it will work out with me and Tray. I started going out with him when I was still very depressed and emotionally needy, but now I'm a happy confident person, and it's not working out anymore. I needed a boyfriend like Tray before, but now it just makes a lot of tension. I wanted a clean break up with him, but he got really upset and felt bad so I said I'd get back together with him but I don't really feel it. I guess I'm just hurting him more this way, but I don't really consider him a boyfriend anymore except in name.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cabbit on February 27, 2005, 07:14:47 PM
Well, I'm happy to hear you are coming out of your depression. Hurting Tray is unfortunate, but that's how it goes. The way to hurt him least is to be as honest and respectful about the matter as possible. I'm sure you've already talked all this out with him though. Good luck! =n.n=
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on February 28, 2005, 03:15:38 AM
Yeah, I told him I'd give him my decision by the end of the week.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on February 28, 2005, 11:39:09 AM
now that were true with him you gotta be true with yourself. dont let someone's hurt and pain help you decide. truthfully follow your heart.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on February 28, 2005, 03:23:25 PM
so weredragon's a mormon?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on March 03, 2005, 11:53:23 AM
lol a mormon... lol thats great.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 03, 2005, 02:42:57 PM
lol yeah lol cccccnnnnn ur so funny lol lol
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on March 03, 2005, 04:07:13 PM
Not anymore, I only have Jean now.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: «Mai» on March 04, 2005, 03:02:05 PM
This really sucks. Theres this guy that likes me, and I don't like him, and its freakishly wierd. No one asks my out anymore because I am claimed to be 'his girl'. I'm tired of being referred to as someone elses, and everybody knows that, and this is getting on my freaking nerves because when ever he looks at me, it looks like he is leering at my body or something. This is not much of a love problem, this is more of a problem dealing with creepy people. Man, as far as I'm concerned, he should be a bitch-hermit. -_-;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 04, 2005, 03:11:06 PM
lol, a lot of times if somebody doesn't talk to you it's not because they think you're dating somebody else, it's because they don't like you.  if they talked to you at all they'd know that you're not dating him and if they wanted to ask you out they would.  it's sad but true.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: «Mai» on March 04, 2005, 03:16:19 PM
Wow. I'm not liked at my school anymore. Actually, I find that comforting. ^^;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 04, 2005, 03:28:21 PM
nobody likes you.  you're life is a waste.  it wouldn't make a difference if you were alive or dead, nobody would care.

you're welcome.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: «Mai» on March 04, 2005, 07:01:41 PM
...You can stop now. =/ Your point has been made.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Noose on March 04, 2005, 07:04:07 PM
That was just rude, man.

I like you, kid. Not you, mai. 12thfret. No one likes you, Mai.

Anyhow, this chick I work with likes me, but I don't like her. I don't want to be mean, so I'll probably just end up marrying her and being unhappy for the rest of my life.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 04, 2005, 07:18:27 PM
...You can stop now. =/ Your point has been made.

it was definitely a joke.  i don't know you so there's no way i could make those observations and be serious about it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on March 05, 2005, 01:27:02 AM
it's funny how so many people are taking you seriously when you're just joking... seriously. i've seen it in at least 3 different threads now.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 05, 2005, 07:11:38 AM
that exactly is the difference between virginia and new york.  here people never know when you're joking and get all offended when you make a joke about something or somebody.  i thought it was funny at first when i moved here but now i just sigh deeply and think "STFU".
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on March 05, 2005, 08:28:49 AM
I don't actually think this is a lovey problem, but I do think it's pretty damn funny.

Okay, so on Valentine's Day I was giving out little chocolate hearts to everyone and this one guy who sat the next table over at lunch kept bitching about how he didn't have a girlfriend. Which is no wonder, he's the biggest asshole on the planet and thinks he's a cowboy to boot. Besides all the dandruff he has. It just coats his entire face and his glasses and his eyebrows and makes him look like a snowman.

Anyways, I gave him a little heart so he'd hopefully shut up but he got mad and threw it at Danielle so I told her to throw it back at him and he came over and was so pissed at me for trying to be nice to him and not just treat him like the ugly asshole everyone else does, so I yelled at him at him and yelled back.

Ever since then, whenever I see him in the hallways I say hi and act really nice and friendly to him and he just hates me for being nice to him. No wonder he doesn't have a girlfriend. He even called Danielle a bitch just because she's my friend.

But for some reason he decided to try to file a sexual harrasment suit against me. It was so funny, he had the principal to the school and tried to convince the principal that I was sexually harrassing him, but everyone was just laughing at him because I had never actually done anything or touched him so he couldn't.

He should be happy if a girl actually did sexually harass him, there's no other way he'd get a girlfriend. He bitches about how he doesn't have one all the time but he's pulls this crap like being a complete jerk all the time whenever anyone is nice to him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: PastThe12thFret on March 05, 2005, 09:18:59 AM
just tell him "you ain't no real bullrider boy"
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on March 06, 2005, 08:07:13 AM
I don't actually think this is a lovey problem, but I do think it's pretty damn funny.

Okay, so on Valentine's Day I was giving out little chocolate hearts to everyone and this one guy who sat the next table over at lunch kept bitching about how he didn't have a girlfriend. Which is no wonder, he's the biggest asshole on the planet and thinks he's a cowboy to boot. Besides all the dandruff he has. It just coats his entire face and his glasses and his eyebrows and makes him look like a snowman.

Anyways, I gave him a little heart so he'd hopefully shut up but he got mad and threw it at Danielle so I told her to throw it back at him and he came over and was so pissed at me for trying to be nice to him and not just treat him like the ugly asshole everyone else does, so I yelled at him at him and yelled back.

Ever since then, whenever I see him in the hallways I say hi and act really nice and friendly to him and he just hates me for being nice to him. No wonder he doesn't have a girlfriend. He even called Danielle a bitch just because she's my friend.

But for some reason he decided to try to file a sexual harrasment suit against me. It was so funny, he had the principal to the school and tried to convince the principal that I was sexually harrassing him, but everyone was just laughing at him because I had never actually done anything or touched him so he couldn't.

He should be happy if a girl actually did sexually harass him, there's no other way he'd get a girlfriend. He bitches about how he doesn't have one all the time but he's pulls this crap like being a complete jerk all the time whenever anyone is nice to him.

It seems to me that he's batting for the other team.   ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on March 06, 2005, 06:47:12 PM
Oh yeah, I forgot about that. Actually that's probably a lot of why he was trying to file the sexual harrasment thing. He was bitching about how he couldn't get a girlfriend so I told him that there was a whole other playing field. He got pretty upset. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Dakar on March 07, 2005, 04:27:06 AM
lol that is great. OMG lmao
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: :Lost: on March 24, 2005, 03:41:30 PM
I want to cry so badly. Jennifer has a boyfriend. When I heard that(And from her own mouth), my heart stopped beating. Out of anyone in the world, why her? Why must she be so...so amazing? I want to tell her how much I love her, but I fear. I'm afraid she'll run away from me. She is in the fingertips of my grasp already and I wish I just could go further. Worst of all I myself have a boyfriend. I love him dearly. What is worse then having your love torn apart by oppisite genders? I can't think of nothing more painful. I wish I had Jennifer, but I don't want to lose Andrew.
Gosh, I so hate that she got with that stupid fucking idiot, Manuel. He is ugly and stupid. -.-
Also another girl is crushing on me and I HAVE to tutor her. I hate her, she is so annoying. She even tried asking me out. I said Fuck not but, I just had to slap her. She KNOWS I hate her....why the hell does she like me now. >_>


Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on March 29, 2005, 12:49:54 PM
Maybe it's because she truly loves you. When one truly loves someone else they can't get them out of their mind.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Death on March 29, 2005, 08:14:24 PM
My boyfriend just broke my heart. It was on Easter to. Our anniversary.  :'(
It was really sad, he just said, " look, I'm sorry, but i love someone else, so get over it, you dumb ass whore." He left, i was there to cry. Alone in the dark. I was so sad i didn't move for an hour. What do I do? I still love him, but like he said, he loves someone else, and if they break up, he's gonna come back to me.. i just know it. It happened before.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on March 29, 2005, 10:15:01 PM
if he does break up with this other girl and comes back to you, don't take him back. he doesn't deserve another chance if that's how he broke up with you. you just need to be strong and move on, no matter how much you think you still love him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on March 30, 2005, 10:00:23 PM
if he does break up with this other girl and comes back to you, don't take him back. he doesn't deserve another chance if that's how he broke up with you. you just need to be strong and move on, no matter how much you think you still love him.

Don't listen to him, he could be the one!! His judgment might have just been confounded at the time.  Being a great partner in a relationship means compromise: no matter how sleazy he may seem, he's really a great person!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 01, 2005, 11:57:04 AM
Don't listen to him, he could be the one!! His judgment might have just been confounded at the time.  Being a great partner in a relationship means compromise: no matter how sleazy he may seem, he's really a great person!!

I was reluctant to post this but...

You're a turd. ;D

<_<;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on April 02, 2005, 11:35:12 PM
Yes but I'm a lovable turd. The kind that you'd proudly bring back home to you parents.  ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Night Priestess on April 05, 2005, 01:44:09 PM
*sigh*
You remind me of Donovan...*shakes head*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 07, 2005, 01:37:47 PM
Yes but I'm a lovable turd. The kind that you'd proudly bring back home to you parents.  ;D

Whatever you say, dork. ::)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on April 08, 2005, 10:29:17 AM

Whatever you say, dork. ::)


Takes one to know one.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on April 08, 2005, 10:30:26 AM
Wow this is so childish.
hah it's funny.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on April 08, 2005, 11:03:11 AM
Hey this is getting off-topic. You guys are breaking the rules.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on April 08, 2005, 11:04:44 AM
I know they are breaking the rules! They always do!! But it doesn't matters because they are moderators and GLOBAL moderators...

TSSS... lol.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on April 08, 2005, 12:09:30 PM
Maybe there is a drought of love problems or something...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 08, 2005, 12:16:09 PM
I can make up a love problem if you want.

Okay, I fell in love with a bear at the zoo but I'm not sure it can work out because those damn zookeepers are keeping him all locked up in cage. I'm sure it can work out though, Beauty and the Beast has taught me that cross species love is still beautiful. I just need a plan to kill all the zookeepers and help my love escape.

How was that one?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on April 08, 2005, 12:18:18 PM
lol that is the weirdest love problem I have ever seen.

and Zell just because they are admins and mods doesn't give them the right to break the rules. If they want their members to follow by the rules, the admins and mods to to set the example.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on April 08, 2005, 12:59:04 PM
Well, it's no fun if the staff are super strict.  A little bit of off-topicness never hurt anyone. 

Oh, and I'll help kill the zookeepers if you want, Shaina.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 09, 2005, 12:01:56 AM
I know they are breaking the rules! They always do!! But it doesn't matters because they are moderators and GLOBAL moderators...

and Zell just because they are admins and mods doesn't give them the right to break the rules. If they want their members to follow by the rules, the admins and mods to to set the example.

This will be an off topic post...but I want to say it anyways 'cause you guys are annoying me with you're whole "Oh, they're going off topic and they don't get in trouble! wah wah *whine whine*"

I wouldn't say we were breaking the rules per se...we were holding onto a very thin string of on topicness, though we were mostly off topic

I commented on how cnn was being a turd because of his lame "love advice" that he gave to Death for her love problems, and we just went from there.  Still partially related, even though it ended up being off topic, though the reason i didn't respond to his "Takes one to know one" is because I knew it'd be going over the line.

Not like we just randomly posted "Yea, I like big butts."  And then continued with a conversation about asses.
That was obviously overexaggerated, but that's just a mere point.

It's not like we call out every off-topic post...Just when it gets extreme do we step in.  If you really wanted us to be hardcore, then I would've been like, "ZOMG [insert name here], You're off topic"

We're members as well.  We can insert an off topic comment here and there.  It's not like we're the only ones, we let it slide with our members more often than you think.  For example, after spamming up the boards constantly, look at how long it took to ban Angel.  So before you start ratting us out, think more carefully about what you're saying.  We're more lenient than you think.


Well, it's no fun if the staff are super strict.  A little bit of off-topicness never hurt anyone. 

Thank you Danielle.

As for my lovey dovey problem:
Sometimes I feel like I'm in competition with Gundam Model Kits.
:P  :-* <# kekeke

Shaina:  I think you should be get hired as a zookeeper, acquire the bear cage keys, let your lover go and live happily ever after.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on April 09, 2005, 12:05:08 AM
As for my lovey dovey problem:
Sometimes I feel like I'm in competition with Gundam Model Kits.
:P  :-* <# kekeke

:P Silly.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on April 09, 2005, 02:53:45 PM
All you Topic-nazi can go shave your heads... Oh Noes!! I'm breaking the rules!!! I'm not on topic!! Puh-lease.  -____-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on April 09, 2005, 06:31:04 PM
i really never understood why people made such a big deal about being off topic. it's really not that bad... unless it gets to the point where it's just two people having a pointless conversation that they could have by pm or im...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Zellgadus on April 09, 2005, 08:37:43 PM
Well here on Yanime I find the moderators really lax about that. On the official gundam forum it<s just plain stupid, banning, grounding and closing threads for getting off-topic... Seriously theres a limit for everything.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 10, 2005, 11:37:27 AM
Well here on Yanime I find the moderators really lax about that. On the official gundam forum it<s just plain stupid, banning, grounding and closing threads for getting off-topic... Seriously theres a limit for everything.

Hmmm..

I know they are breaking the rules! They always do!! But it doesn't matters because they are moderators and GLOBAL moderators...

Wow...what a way to change your opinion and so quickly!  You didn't seem to think we were so "lax" in this previous post.  You made it seem like we break rules for no good reason just because we have "titles". Pshaw.


On another note-Umm...my fear of gundam models taking over my boyfriend has subsided. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on April 10, 2005, 01:17:32 PM
zell is starting to have a bit of a history in being contradictory...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 10, 2005, 03:58:39 PM
My boyfriend likes nascar and wrestling.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on April 10, 2005, 06:25:05 PM
i actually do have a lovey problem right now... sorta.


ok, so i'm still in the process of getting over the fact that i can never be with my friend mike. slowly but surely. and now there's a girl i'm interested in... i've been into her for about a month now. she's this really cute filipino girl in my english class. she's really sweet and shy and really isn't like most girls...

so the main problem you can see here is that i don't know if she's into girls or not. and i have no idea how to find out. and i'm starting to get desperate, unfortunately... but sometimes it seems that she might be into girls or at least be curious. i really can't tell though.


blah.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: JackGrover on April 11, 2005, 11:36:08 AM
On another note-Umm...my fear of gundam models taking over my boyfriend has subsided. :P

Ruri, or anyone that worries about their special someone's hobby, should know that the only time you really need to start worrying is when they become secretive of it.  And of course that would only be for two reasons...
1) They feel ashamed of the time they aren't spending with you   OR
2) They've gotten into something they think YOU will think is "dirty" or won't understand.

Of course, there are those of you who will, no doubt, bring up the THIRD reason for them becoming secretive.  And that is...
3) They've been taken over by some Evil spirit or Alien parasite or Mad scientists mind control device. 

But we all know that those mind control devices are inherently glitchy and so I discount this third theory!  :P

Ummm, what was the topic again?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 11, 2005, 12:09:14 PM
hahahaha-naw, I just don't like how absorbed he gets sometimes when he's talking on the phone with me...'cause it's like...I'm not there anymore!! o_o

But it's all good ;D and solves and has turned into blissful happiness now!
That, and I get to see him this wednesday.  Teekee
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on April 11, 2005, 03:43:13 PM
i actually do have a lovey problem right now... sorta.


ok, so i'm still in the process of getting over the fact that i can never be with my friend mike. slowly but surely. and now there's a girl i'm interested in... i've been into her for about a month now. she's this really cute filipino girl in my english class. she's really sweet and shy and really isn't like most girls...

so the main problem you can see here is that i don't know if she's into girls or not. and i have no idea how to find out. and i'm starting to get desperate, unfortunately... but sometimes it seems that she might be into girls or at least be curious. i really can't tell though.


blah.

well one way to see if she's into girls or not is to invite her to a sleep over...and then take it from there... >_>
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on April 11, 2005, 06:36:42 PM
haha, that would work... except she and i aren't on that level of friendship. it's more like we just say hi every now and then... she is friends with some of my friends though...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on April 11, 2005, 07:15:17 PM
haha, that would work... except she and i aren't on that level of friendship. it's more like we just say hi every now and then... she is friends with some of my friends though...

Hmm... I would think simply trying to hang out with her more and get to a higher level of friendship might be good... plus, then you might be able to find out if she is into girls or not... but would that be too tough to hang around her more often and not be able to bring anything up? <<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: JaisBane on April 11, 2005, 07:17:02 PM
You need to take her to a public bath or hot spring and offer to help her lather up, it always works in porn
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on April 11, 2005, 07:22:40 PM
You need to take her to a public bath or hot spring and offer to help her lather up, it always works in porn

Or just be clutsy and do it like your typical romantic comedy... you might have to wait another 13 episodes to get a kiss, but it might work. ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on April 11, 2005, 07:43:17 PM
hahaha...

i really have no idea how to find out other than just being really blunt. but then it would be really awkward. blah. i don't know. i could have some friends go undercover or something heh...



the good news is i'm completely over mike now. heh.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: JackGrover on April 12, 2005, 07:24:48 AM
...i really have no idea how to find out other than just being really blunt. but then it would be really awkward. blah. i don't know. i could have some friends go undercover or something heh....

Well, JaisBane and Judau actually have the right line of thought going.  Their only problem is their minds are stuck in 'H' mode.  ;D  Well, ok, so is mine, but let me step out into the light for a moment and offer this idea...

The next time your friends go out somewhere with her, have them invite you too!  Do this a few times.  You'll have the chance to be near her AND, you'll get a better idea as to how she might feel.  And after a few times out as a group maybe make a one-on-one outing for just the two of you.  If she says yes, then you're on your way to being able to talk to her about how you feel about men and women.  Once you get to that point, you'll do fine. 

I had a male friend do it that way with me. Even though I don't see him in that way, we're still good friends.  Heck, I even had a gf that turned out to prefer women.  We're REALLY good friends.  And MAN, can she pick out the hot girls when we go to the beach!  ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 25, 2005, 03:25:26 AM
His parents don't like me, and they do pretty much everything they can to make sure we don't get together outside of school. It's so frusterating. It's not like I'm some stupid girl who's going to become a hobo, I'm smarter than him even and I'm a nice girl for the most part. He is 18, he is old enough to have a girlfriend. I wish they would stop this crap. It's not even than we can only see each other in school, it's just that they don't like me for no reason that's pissing me off.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cuteflyz89 on April 25, 2005, 09:28:06 AM
His parents don't like me, and they do pretty much everything they can to make sure we don't get together outside of school. It's so frusterating. It's not like I'm some stupid girl who's going to become a hobo, I'm smarter than him even and I'm a nice girl for the most part. He is 18, he is old enough to have a girlfriend. I wish they would stop this crap. It's not even than we can only see each other in school, it's just that they don't like me for no reason that's pissing me off.
could it be the way you dress?? (not saying you dress bad or nething)
some parents don't like some people dress it could be this. may not be.

but i think you should have a talk with his parents and find out what they don't like about you. and try to fix it. or something.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on April 25, 2005, 04:44:45 PM
She dresses fine to me.  And her personality is fine too.  It's Jean-Jean anyway, not Mean-John so she's not all mean to him at all.  Meh.  Stab them, Shaina.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 25, 2005, 05:14:07 PM
They don't like me just because they're opposed to him having a girlfriend in general. They didn't even give me a damn chance, just didn't like me right away.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 30, 2005, 05:51:56 AM
He broke up with me last night. He said it's because he doesn't think it'd work out when he goes to college and so we should end it before we get even closer together.

I feel really goddamn sick.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Private Prinny on April 30, 2005, 06:58:59 AM
Thats sad to hear....
....but...
May I ask you,  if you think this is the real reason?
When I read your last posts, it comes to my mind, that he was pressured by his parents to say that?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on April 30, 2005, 09:02:27 AM
He broke up with me last night.

That was sorta sudden...  O_O
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on April 30, 2005, 11:27:03 AM
Thats sad to hear....
....but...
May I ask you,  if you think this is the real reason?
When I read your last posts, it comes to my mind, that he was pressured by his parents to say that?

I know his parents had something to do with the whole thing, I'm not sure how much of a role they played. They'd been telling him that us dating was a bad idea and he said what they were saying was starting to make sense to him, but maybe he was going to break up with me already and they just helped push it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Private Prinny on April 30, 2005, 06:17:27 PM
As always, this world we live in is a terrible place!  :-[

Walks away singing the lonesome cowboy-song
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on May 05, 2005, 10:01:00 AM
You just figured that out dude? lol

Well whenever you deal with love it will always seem like a cruel and twisted world cause love is always fluctuating.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on June 07, 2005, 07:27:45 AM
the good news is i'm completely over mike now. heh.

hey! me too! but that was a while ago... :P dewd! i wanna see her!!! apparently you showed mike who she was but i still have no idea :( :( :(

my current "lovey problem"

i broke up with my boyfriend but he doesnt seem to realize i broke up with him and wished me a happy eight months at midnight. meh. oh well. im sure he'll figure it out eventually.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Denkogami on June 07, 2005, 01:54:11 PM
O.O

Or you could just tell him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on June 07, 2005, 02:38:27 PM
How'd you break up with him?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on June 07, 2005, 04:56:23 PM
i told him we're over. good bye :P and some other junk. like reasons why and whatnot.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on June 07, 2005, 05:49:17 PM
Well that's pretty clear, I have no idea how he could have taken that differently.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: twilght girl on July 19, 2005, 12:26:48 PM
ok, well i met someone like a month before he moved to colorado, and here is what happened.

I went to go see him for the last time, since he went to florida for awhile to visit his dad. Then he came back. So i went to his house, to go say goodbye, while my step sister stayed in the drive way looking at the top window, inwhich she saw him looking out, as he started freaking out because he knew it was me. So he ignored me, now i'm heart broken, and i don't know if i should try to call him and leave a message on his phone, or just leave him be and never talk to him again.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on July 29, 2005, 02:08:49 AM
I think you should get troubles dealt with and out in the open instead of enclosed like that because it leads to anxiety of what he was thinking  :o.
Just a thought.

BTW I'm a lonely person who was built for a depressing life and solitude plus bullying,art, misery and yeah more hell, oh, I forgot to mention cram so I'm not gonna put my problems on the table sorries ^_^.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 03, 2005, 02:58:46 PM
By the way I seriously find that the way you spoke about breaking up with him about telling him all this''and whatnot'' as if he were just some run  o' the mill loser and no-name that you went out with for the hell of it and decided that you used him enough and he wasn't to your amusement anymore thus throwing him in the trash and finding someone else to have fun with.That's my impression of the aspects you described in that relationship it really hurt me somehow, I think you really saddened me when you seemed to imply that he was just some old thing you wanted to get rid off.That really hurts my head  :-\

Noodle
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 03, 2005, 05:49:11 PM
hm. i just got asked out by a guy i saw at a party. he and i were in a couple classes together last year, and he mysteriously disappeared after a while. he sort of told me what happened but it was very vague. i'll just assume he switched schools...

well anyway. i could tell he wanted to ask me, because he put on the act where he pretends he doesn't remember me but recognizes me from somewhere. then about the third thing he said was "do you have a boyfriend?" we were talking for a while and then my friends wanted to leave, and he asked for my number and i stupidly gave it to him.

he called me the next day and asked me out, and called me "cutie" and was just being... dorky. in a bad way. i said maybe, because i didn't know what to say. he called me back the day after that twice but i missed it both times... i don't really feel like calling him back, heh...


anyway, i'm going to say no. because i still have some feelings for that girl i mentioned a while back, and i don't really like this guy much. he's not even good friend material... so i'm going to tell him about the girl i like to hopefully keep him away.



i regret being overly friendly now, heh.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Gomez799 on August 03, 2005, 06:35:34 PM
My brother brings random girls into our room to have sex..he kicks me out.Oneday he brought His hot ass Girl friend to my house but even though i wanted to hit on her my bro saw her first so i coudltn butt in.Well you know time goes one and w/e.. okay so about a month ago i went to this party and i saw the girl again so i started hitting on her.At that point i was like so smacked and ended up having sex with her.My bro found out a day later from one of his friends.I came home and i got my ass beaten i was left half dead so after that i promised to my self that i wouldnt have relationship with my bro's girl friends any more even if i was smacked and was drunk like shit.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 03, 2005, 08:12:37 PM
People, I don't want to be mean cold or heartless or whatever offending characteristic you can imagine but, this place is to ask for help on relationships and such, not just to say what happened to you -_-''. Or like a problem already solved.

Noodle
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 04, 2005, 08:56:11 AM
that was a nice story, gomez. (and that was sarcasm)



yeah, i know my story sounds like i'm just saying what happened, but i was kind of leaving it open for someone to offer me advice on what to do. even if i've already kind of decided.


and anyway, what does it matter? this place is so fucking up tight with being on topic and not spamming it makes me sick.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 04, 2005, 12:13:19 PM
-waits for help on this topic-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on August 04, 2005, 05:26:45 PM
By the way I seriously find that the way you spoke about breaking up with him about telling him all this''and whatnot'' as if he were just some run  o' the mill loser and no-name that you went out with for the hell of it and decided that you used him enough and he wasn't to your amusement anymore thus throwing him in the trash and finding someone else to have fun with.That's my impression of the aspects you described in that relationship it really hurt me somehow, I think you really saddened me when you seemed to imply that he was just some old thing you wanted to get rid off.That really hurts my head  :-\

Noodle

I didn't get that impression at all, I got the impression that she was trying to say what happened but she didn't want to tell all these people she barely knows all the details about her love life. I got the impression that you automatically assume the worst about Jennifer for no reason, and I don't like that.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 04, 2005, 07:34:58 PM
not to mention he doesn't know her really at all. because he's completely wrong in his assumptions...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 04, 2005, 08:06:52 PM
''and some other junk :P''<----Saying stuff like that got me that feeling.Excuse my assumption if it is false but I just got that vibe,no need to go anti-noodle over a false view of someone.If I'm wrong then I apologize and my condolences all right? And it IS extremely comprehensible that you don't like the fact that I got this impression so ,once again,I'm sorry.But before I start sticking to  your perspective over mine , which is supposedly wrong,I would like to hear it from the person who wrote down her little predicament to tell me herself,that she didn't mean it that way.

Noodle
(I hope you find my request reasonable.)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 05, 2005, 01:32:29 PM
well, being a person that knows her in real life and goes to school with her and hangs out with her (when she can) and has heard a lot about that relationship she had, i feel like i'm a reliable source. but it's true that it would be better to hear it from her. i just have a feeling she won't be back here for a while, if at all, anyway.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 05, 2005, 11:42:37 PM
Noodle, you have to take into mind the phrase "Look out for number one." Who cares about other people. If she spends time worrying about how he feels about the whole ordeal then she'll be neglecting her feeling, for the most part. Also, noodle, high school romances don't always last forever. It all has to end at one point or another. So, let's be reasonable here. If she does that to the guy, it could be percieved that she really does like him as a person. However, obviosly not a person she wants to be with. I mean, I mean look at it this way. If she just breaks it off with him in the most ass way possible, he's more likely to get the picture/lose his feelings about her. At least, that what I would do. So...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 06, 2005, 02:31:23 PM
''If she just breaks it off with him in the most ass way possible, he's more likely to get the picture/lose his feelings about her.''

I read your post over and over before being able  to reply --;; . Now you said in the MOST ASS WAY POSSIBLE, which probably signifies a job fully done  :P, and I mentioned that I thought she did it half-ass as if she wanted to just lose  the guy as if it were a bother,something she desperatley wanted to get rid of.That's the vibe I recieved, sue me. Now the majority of people think that it's not true, so everyone thinks differently, and if they know her better than me then they're probably right.But I wanted to hear it from her mouth, now you come in talking about me, not comprehending a thing about ''high school romances'',  which I find is severly irrelevant.I NEVER mentioned choosing the first guy you meet and sticking to him,I merely implied that I disliked the way she described breaking up with him, as it being a hassle and such.Since you told me to think of it as being done in the most ass way possible,that's fine but from my perspective , she did a half-ass job.Once again, if she, herself could come here and say it I would be grateful, it saves alot've time.Otherwise, next problem? We can't stay all day on this one considering the one who talked about it already solved it and doesn't seem to be posting much anymore,plus we were merely discussing how she solved it.So, next problem? ^^;;

Noodle
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 06, 2005, 04:15:44 PM
Why do you care so much? It's not like her break-up with this guy is going to destroy the world. Also, by "most ass way possible" I meant that being, like, really asshole-ish. Do you see now? Anyway, as I said earlier, look out for number one. Who cares about that guy?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 06, 2005, 06:01:29 PM
and i assure you that she didn't just want to "lose" this guy. she's made many efforts to stay a part of his life, even if it's not as his girlfriend. it may not be coming straight from her mouth, but based on my observations, that's what it's like.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 06, 2005, 08:13:58 PM
I don't care so much,I asked for the next problem!I get it can we move on?!?!!
Alright, alright, I already said let's lose this topic and find another REAL problem (gosh!),

Noodle
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 06, 2005, 10:22:43 PM
Allrighty, Napoleon. ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 07, 2005, 12:53:37 PM
alright here's a real problem.


i want a girlfriend. find me one. now.



there. start workin on it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 07, 2005, 01:21:50 PM
You can always sign up for one of those dating services and get lured into some Nigerian hoax. You wanna do that?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 07, 2005, 02:41:45 PM
hahaha... i was mostly kidding, actually.


i've looked around on those dumb online personals sites before. you have to be at least 18, so everyone is older than me anyway (even if i will be 18 in february) and a lot of the girls i've found are annoying and not my type. *shrug*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 07, 2005, 02:46:41 PM
I fail to understand with your enthousiasm,just try being nicer to a girl?  ;) And be frank with her, don't go around things. Also, if you see a girl you wanna talk to, go for it :D, just think of something to talk about it and you're in, think like that. :-\
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 07, 2005, 04:00:14 PM
Noodle, she's a girl. I think she's well equipped with enough knowledge of their kind to know how to handle them. ;)

Also, did you actually know, Nikki, that online dating services are actually falling prey to these "Nigerian hoaxes"? I read a little article about it on MSN news. It's really stupid.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 07, 2005, 04:36:06 PM
i'm pretty sure. but whatever.

and of course i have enough knowledge to know how to "handle" girls, the only problem is there's a small chance that i'll find one that's into girls as well, unless i go to a youth center or some kind of lesbian hang out.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 07, 2005, 05:45:55 PM
Some of my friends and I saw a dike at Dairy Queen the other day. Oh man, she was full-on raging, too. It was pretty funny. She was wearing a Metallica shirt with her hair really short and spiked. Also, she kept going on and on to the cashier about how she really deserved that damn ice cream because she had been working in hot weather building houses all day. It was sickening but funny.

Anyway, yes, "handle" them. They're pretty tricky. Just as monkeys are. Of course, you can always take a little trip to San Francisco to meet a cool little chicky-poo partner.

By the way, this whole girlfriend thing of yours wouldn't be just something done out of spite to rebel against your parents; now would it? Not that I don't believe that you're really a bisexual, of course. I was just wondering.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 07, 2005, 07:16:14 PM
nope. i'm a genuine bisexual. not just bicurious or horny out of my mind. i want a real relationship, and right now i happen to want it with a girl. i'm attracted to both girls and guys though.


and i don't see what's so funny about the "dyke" story... i guess i had to be there?



and i'm too poor to fly to san francisco. and anyways, i want someone that lives here. i'm so tired of long distance shit.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: noodle on August 07, 2005, 08:33:36 PM
LOL!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 07, 2005, 09:28:22 PM
what was that for?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Spike Spiegel on August 08, 2005, 01:05:56 PM
nope. i'm a genuine bisexual. not just bicurious or horny out of my mind. i want a real relationship, and right now i happen to want it with a girl. i'm attracted to both girls and guys though.


and i don't see what's so funny about the "dyke" story... i guess i had to be there?



and i'm too poor to fly to san francisco. and anyways, i want someone that lives here. i'm so tired of long distance shit.

I just think dykes are funny. That's all. Also, noodle, that was a completely pointless post.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cynical monkey on August 08, 2005, 03:08:20 PM
um. alright. whatever floats your boat.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on October 12, 2005, 07:10:42 PM
that burning sensation isn't love...

... it's genital warts.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Youko Kenshin on October 21, 2005, 04:00:40 PM
that burning sensation isn't love...

... it's genital warts.

Lol...okay then...

I have problems right now as well.

I can't love (well, I can, but it's hard to)...I'm now afriad to be intimate with people...

All because of him...

And now because of that, I have gone completely insane. I now have two subconsciences that I call Lucifer and the Mad Hatter...so everytime you IM me, there they are...

Seriously...it's driving me nuts! >_<
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on October 21, 2005, 04:58:46 PM
that burning sensation isn't love...

... it's genital warts.

Lol...okay then...

I have problems right now as well.

I can't love (well, I can, but it's hard to)...I'm now afriad to be intimate with people...

All because of him...

And now because of that, I have gone completely insane. I now have two subconsciences that I call Lucifer and the Mad Hatter...so everytime you IM me, there they are...

Seriously...it's driving me nuts! >_<

I think I speak for all of us when I say that you most likely are not insane, nor do you have a triple personality.  Everyone has problems, learn to fucking deal like everyone else.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Youko Kenshin on October 23, 2005, 02:25:02 PM
that burning sensation isn't love...

... it's genital warts.

Lol...okay then...

I have problems right now as well.

I can't love (well, I can, but it's hard to)...I'm now afriad to be intimate with people...

All because of him...

And now because of that, I have gone completely insane. I now have two subconsciences that I call Lucifer and the Mad Hatter...so everytime you IM me, there they are...

Seriously...it's driving me nuts! >_<

I think I speak for all of us when I say that you most likely are not insane, nor do you have a triple personality.  Everyone has problems, learn to fucking deal like everyone else.

I am, with the power of blogs!  ;D

But seriously, after this I think that young love (love <18) is bullshit. It's going to end no matter what you think.

Yeah...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cgoten on October 23, 2005, 04:11:42 PM
But seriously, after this I think that young love (love <18) is bullshit. It's going to end no matter what you think.

Of course, but there's still something to be learned from it.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on October 23, 2005, 04:31:45 PM
thats not necessarily true...

i think its possible to have a relationship that lasts even before you're 18. it doesnt happen often, but its possible.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on October 23, 2005, 04:38:40 PM
My friend's parents were high school sweethearts, if that means anything to support the.....goodness.....of relationships before 18.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on October 23, 2005, 04:43:59 PM
omg. are you serious??

thats so cute...

idk. my older sister's exboyfriend's parents were highschool sweethearts too.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on October 23, 2005, 04:48:43 PM
My grandmother and my grandfather started dating when she was 14 and he was 20, and they were married for 51 years before he died of lung cancer.

And no, he wasn't a pedophile...he went to fight in WW2 and her friend had been dating him...the friend sent him a dear john letter but decided that she could at least give him another girl to write to, so she choose my grandmother, who lied and said she was older. I guess by the time he found out he just stuck with it, I think it was more acceptable back then too.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Shrine on December 01, 2005, 11:11:48 PM
I am, with the power of blogs! ;D

But seriously, after this I think that young love (love <18) is bullshit. It's going to end no matter what you think.

Aww.. Probably, but it's everyone's choice and fate maybe.. (isn't that contradictin'? -_-)

Cheer up girl! You're too young! ^_~
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Odd on December 26, 2005, 10:48:03 PM
emotions are meant to be sold to satan for endless beauty and wealth!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: ZeroRyoko1974 on March 28, 2006, 02:29:31 PM
I got love problems, problem is I can't go no sweet lovin ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Love Struck on June 08, 2006, 10:33:58 AM
Ok...Yes...I have a problem..Lovey Problem. lol. I don't know what to do...so if you can help me. Here's the problem :::

Ok, I like to go roller skating at this place. And there is this guy I like who's cousin's with my friend. She has a big mouth. Well...I'm going out with her cousin now(caleb)...but I never see him. There's another guy (adam) that I see a lot at the rink, but my ex enemy told me that he got into a bad care reck and now has stiches on his face. I don't really care about the stiches, its just..I still like him...while I have a bf. And if I break up with her caleb, to go out with the guy...then..I don't wanna seem like a bitch..because he's really really sweet...but I still like adam more then him. But I'm still waiting for someone to come and tell me that he likes me. Because a few people are just sayin they think he likes me. I'm to shy to go up to him and ask. He knows I like him...and before ..I took adam's phone and he chased me. And he asked for a hug..and then he kissed me. I dunno whats up with that. He kissed me to get his phone back...or what. I just don't know what to do...Help me please. I go skating every friday and saturday. And if adam is well enough to go skating on friday..i'll need some advise before then.

Please ...please... help me.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on June 08, 2006, 07:29:43 PM
man you do need help.

okay. this is what you do:

spell "care reck" like this -> "car wreck"
and "stiches" like so -> "stitches"

Oh and I read the first four lines of your post and then skipped to the end, which is quite generous considering I generally only force myself to read two lines of your posts out of sympathy.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ink on June 09, 2006, 09:14:59 PM
man you do need help.

okay. this is what you do:

spell "care reck" like this -> "car wreck"
and "stiches" like so -> "stitches"

Oh and I read the first four lines of your post and then skipped to the end, which is quite generous considering I generally only force myself to read two lines of your posts out of sympathy.

how charitable, ccc...

what the fuck's gotten into you?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Love Struck on June 10, 2006, 12:53:09 PM
Well my bad. I started editing things without reading the sentence. My bad. I really didn't feel like paying attention to the fucking grammer so fuck it. wreck, stitches, car, who gives a flying fuck. Anyways::::

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ink on June 10, 2006, 01:22:17 PM
Well my bad. I started editing things without reading the sentence. My bad. I really didn't feel like paying attention to the fucking grammer so fuck it. wreck, stitches, car, who gives a flying fuck. Anyways::::



Uh, normally we wouldn't care if it was anyone... BUT you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Love Struck on June 11, 2006, 03:53:04 PM
eh, well fuck it. This is why I left in the first place. Sites fuckin boring and rude.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Floating_Sakura on June 13, 2006, 01:28:00 PM
actually... i did try to read it.. but there are so many run-on sentences that i got so confused over which guy is which and which guy did what and which guy you like and which guy you're dating and who's what and what and which guy is the one you met at the skating rank and who's cousin of who and who whether it's your ex that you like or his cousin or his cousin's bf...

seriously, if you want someone to reply to your post, can't you make it at least a little more readable? =.=;
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on June 13, 2006, 05:16:35 PM
eh, well fuck it. This is why I left in the first place. Sites fuckin boring and rude.

No, you left in the first place because we banned you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on June 13, 2006, 07:54:00 PM
eh, well fuck it. This is why I left in the first place. Sites fuckin boring and rude.

No, you left in the first place because we banned you.

You beat me to the punch.  Here's what you do Angel.

Don't date anyone till you grow up and mature a little more.  It'll save you AND US a lot of time and trouble.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ink on June 14, 2006, 12:49:06 PM
eh, well fuck it. This is why I left in the first place. Sites fuckin boring and rude.

No, you left in the first place because we banned you.

You beat me to the punch.  Here's what you do Angel.

Don't date anyone till you grow up and mature a little more.  It'll save you AND US a lot of time and trouble.

Couldn't have said it any better myself.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on June 14, 2006, 05:44:23 PM
Then don't bother saying anything at all.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ink on June 14, 2006, 06:07:06 PM
Then don't bother saying anything at all.
Don't be such a hardass. :/
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Love Struck on June 14, 2006, 11:43:53 PM
Well..i'm capable of dating, just I get confused easily. I broke up with caleb. Went out with adam, he broke up with me...i have no idea why. But uh...then the other day somethin bad happened. Somethin with me and a 23 year old. Um..well..we kinda made out..and well i actually liked his younger brother who's 18 and he kinda liked me. One of the kids we were hangin with told him and now he won't talk to me. I know...kissin the 23 year old was the hugest mistake of my life, but I have no idea what to do, and how to make him not mad at me. I've been avoiding the 23 year old, but he's been wanting to see me and i've said no the whole time. I really like the 18 year old, but he won't talk to me. && the only reason I gave up on him was because he said he didn't want to date me because I was 14 and he was 18. so I gave up. I had no idea that the 23 year old liked me till the day he kissed me. and yeah. I dont know what to do..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: cccnnn on June 15, 2006, 05:36:24 PM
You don't have a love problem, Angel, you have a slutting out problem.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: clash on June 15, 2006, 08:57:23 PM
Well..i'm capable of dating, just I get confused easily. I broke up with caleb. Went out with adam, he broke up with me...i have no idea why. But uh...then the other day somethin bad happened. Somethin with me and a 23 year old. Um..well..we kinda made out..and well i actually liked his younger brother who's 18 and he kinda liked me. One of the kids we were hangin with told him and now he won't talk to me. I know...kissin the 23 year old was the hugest mistake of my life, but I have no idea what to do, and how to make him not mad at me. I've been avoiding the 23 year old, but he's been wanting to see me and i've said no the whole time. I really like the 18 year old, but he won't talk to me. && the only reason I gave up on him was because he said he didn't want to date me because I was 14 and he was 18. so I gave up. I had no idea that the 23 year old liked me till the day he kissed me. and yeah. I dont know what to do..

wtf...can you say pedophile?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on June 16, 2006, 04:37:01 AM
Well..i'm capable of dating, just I get confused easily. I broke up with caleb. Went out with adam, he broke up with me...i have no idea why. But uh...then the other day somethin bad happened. Somethin with me and a 23 year old. Um..well..we kinda made out..and well i actually liked his younger brother who's 18 and he kinda liked me. One of the kids we were hangin with told him and now he won't talk to me. I know...kissin the 23 year old was the hugest mistake of my life, but I have no idea what to do, and how to make him not mad at me. I've been avoiding the 23 year old, but he's been wanting to see me and i've said no the whole time. I really like the 18 year old, but he won't talk to me. && the only reason I gave up on him was because he said he didn't want to date me because I was 14 and he was 18. so I gave up. I had no idea that the 23 year old liked me till the day he kissed me. and yeah. I dont know what to do..



Well, dur.  Everyone is capable of dating.  Some people just do it tastefully or when they KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

That does not include you.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Youko Kenshin on June 16, 2006, 06:44:08 AM
Maybe we shouldn't make threads like this, you know, to stop all of this drama.

I think these kinds of problems should be left to a professional, or someone in real life. There's really no need to announce it on a message board. Really.

This be a generalized statement. No blame is going on anyone.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Cgoten on June 16, 2006, 12:03:37 PM
I think these kinds of problems should be left to a professional, or someone in real life.

Then you don't have to take part in these discussions, but people who feel differently can feel free to say what they want.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Youko Kenshin on June 16, 2006, 08:53:25 PM
I think these kinds of problems should be left to a professional, or someone in real life.

Then you don't have to take part in these discussions, but people who feel differently can feel free to say what they want.

...and you correct! =)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ink on June 21, 2006, 07:13:05 AM
Well..i'm capable of dating, just I get confused easily. I broke up with caleb. Went out with adam, he broke up with me...i have no idea why. But uh...then the other day somethin bad happened. Somethin with me and a 23 year old. Um..well..we kinda made out..and well i actually liked his younger brother who's 18 and he kinda liked me. One of the kids we were hangin with told him and now he won't talk to me. I know...kissin the 23 year old was the hugest mistake of my life, but I have no idea what to do, and how to make him not mad at me. I've been avoiding the 23 year old, but he's been wanting to see me and i've said no the whole time. I really like the 18 year old, but he won't talk to me. && the only reason I gave up on him was because he said he didn't want to date me because I was 14 and he was 18. so I gave up. I had no idea that the 23 year old liked me till the day he kissed me. and yeah. I dont know what to do..

wait a second...
Let me get this straight.
You made out with an 18 year old, a 23 year old, and god knows how many other people you've made out with.
and you declared that you've gotten more mature within the past year?!
LOL.

RECRUITING ALL YANIME MEMBERS!!
IF YOU LIVE WITHIN A 50 MILE RADIUS OF WHERE ANGEL LIVES.
DO THE WHOLE WORLD A FAVOR AND ERADICATE THE VIRUS.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Karthnit on November 07, 2006, 08:28:34 PM
wow...14 and doing stuff with a 23year old and an 18 year old... and the concent age is what were you live?  here the 23 year old would be arrested even for just kissing you and the 18 year old could have charges pressed.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on January 27, 2007, 05:18:27 AM
well its fun isnt it?
i mean making out. if you have fun thats alright but if not you got a problem with yourself trust me i know....
but then lovestruck you sould really know who youll end up best if you dont just wait a little more time youre still young. your just 14! well its really up to you. i really want to help thats all...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 05, 2007, 01:07:56 AM
hey, why don't you all go to psychologist, or even a psychiatry to solve your problems..

just kidding ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 10, 2007, 05:13:21 AM
hey, why don't you all go to psychologist, or even a psychiatry to solve your problems..


well that could be true but saying it could really lighten up a bit right?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 10, 2007, 08:22:58 PM
hey, why don't you all go to psychologist, or even a psychiatry to solve your problems..


well that could be true but saying it could really lighten up a bit right?

no, but you can help psychologists like me to improve by little.. ;D
just kidding...
hey really, lately, i've some lovey problem too, i help myself relieve the stress by changing it to a drawing..

that's http://www.geocities.com/deepbloodywound/images/AndSoMyLoveStoryEnded.jpg
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 10, 2007, 08:48:19 PM
if you have some lovey problems, the right thing to do is wash your face, and do what you like until you forget everything that's happened to you

or release your stressfull thought by sleeping, sleeping can re-structure the nerve's works and help you face a lot of problem (but that doesnt mean you just have to sleep if you face problem ;D)

k'? ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on February 21, 2007, 09:47:19 PM
my boyfriend doesnt wanna secks with me all the time.
so sometimes i have to rape him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on February 22, 2007, 09:03:04 AM
Haha, sounds like you don't actually have a problem, then. :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 23, 2007, 09:41:59 AM
its fine but dont be over-passionate you might...*toot* *toot*


p.s. do something that could make him sex with you more. my suggestion is you do something that exites him to do it or anything related to that.
but if you dont want to its ok just wanna help as much as i could ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on February 24, 2007, 06:38:41 AM
last time i tried to be hot, i fell off the bed.
idk. he says its okay that i like to rape him all the time.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 24, 2007, 07:29:42 AM
ouch that gotta hurt!
he says its okay that i like to rape him all the time.

well its fine then :) on second thought are you ok with it?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on February 24, 2007, 12:29:51 PM
well... i think itd be more fun if he raped me sometimes...
but even if he wanted to he like cant.
cus all i ever wanna do is secks him.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 24, 2007, 10:30:01 PM
wow...
such a bold conversation.. ;D

well... i think itd be more fun if he raped me sometimes...
but even if he wanted to he like cant.
cus all i ever wanna do is secks him.

try to restrain a little, if not he would change to a hungry wolf... ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on February 25, 2007, 12:32:18 AM
last time i tried to be hot, i fell off the bed.

Hahahah... awesome.

try to restrain a little, if not he would change to a hungry wolf... ;D

Actually, this is a very good point... certainly worth a shot.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 26, 2007, 01:16:10 AM
well theres always a way or another  :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 27, 2007, 01:05:33 AM
try to restrain a little, if not he would change to a hungry wolf... ;D

Actually, this is a very good point... certainly worth a shot.


HAH HAH HAH :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 27, 2007, 01:13:20 AM
whats funny bout that?  ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on February 27, 2007, 01:56:59 PM
whats funny bout that?  ???

Dun' worry about it :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 28, 2007, 04:04:34 AM
what's to worry about?? i wonder... ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on March 02, 2007, 04:06:38 AM
what's to worry about?? i wonder... ;D

Ooooh, the gossip!  Ooooh, the drama!  There's really nothing to worry about...for now as far as I know.  Just a few bumps in the road, but that's normal. :P

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 02, 2007, 06:12:43 AM
well youre right! ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 03, 2007, 09:04:41 PM
i dont get it.... ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 04, 2007, 03:43:45 AM
it means its just a trial in life. right ruri?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on March 06, 2007, 11:14:51 AM
it means its just a trial in life. right ruri?

It's a trial in life, but more specifically-something testing the strength of our relationship. :)

That's how I meant it at least.  Things are better for now. :P  And he's visiting me in less than two weeks!! :O!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on March 07, 2007, 05:34:42 PM
it means its just a trial in life. right ruri?

It's a trial in life, but more specifically-something testing the strength of our relationship. :)

That's how I meant it at least.  Things are better for now. :P  And he's visiting me in less than two weeks!! :O!

I can't wait, either! ^__^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 08, 2007, 12:51:42 AM
who is visting?  ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 08, 2007, 02:49:09 AM
man....
i really cannot understand what youre talking about... :P

btw, my girlfriend hasn't come back...(you remember right??)
i'm tired of waiting....

would it be better if i look for some other girls??
i need advices here...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 10, 2007, 02:35:57 AM
if you really love her you should just wait for her if you dont then find another its youre choice not ours but i could give you some more advices if you want to...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 12, 2007, 05:21:18 AM
i really do love her, so i guess youre right

i'll wait for her, even in despair... :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 16, 2007, 05:34:39 AM
just be sure to be true in your heart ok? ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 17, 2007, 05:42:03 AM
I'LL SAY THIS AGAIN!!!

FINALLY, SHE COME BACK TO ME!!

thanks for all your supports!!

ARIGATOU!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 22, 2007, 02:00:58 AM
dont mention it
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 22, 2007, 06:04:25 AM
youre all so kind to me

and i cant do anything for you  :-\
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 24, 2007, 07:18:01 AM
look if any of you need help just tell me i can give you advises(?)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 25, 2007, 03:35:21 AM
guess the same goes for you.. ;D
i'll help as long as i can
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on March 25, 2007, 07:52:21 PM
i guess guys are helpless without girls :) well i wouldnt know becoz i have no  interest with girls (or guys for that matter) im more iterested in seeing couples rather than being one :P
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 28, 2007, 01:12:00 AM
meaning? your gay?! :o
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on March 28, 2007, 06:43:25 PM
I visited Ruri last week.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 28, 2007, 06:45:50 PM
 :o
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on March 28, 2007, 06:50:58 PM
Huh?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 28, 2007, 06:54:00 PM
im just shocked for no apparent reason ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on March 29, 2007, 05:01:27 AM
youre really weird lately kazenoken  8) :P

guess i should visit someone in this forum sometimes (how can I??)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 29, 2007, 07:15:19 PM
youre really weird lately kazenoken  8) :P

guess i should visit someone in this forum sometimes (how can I??)

i'm weird they tell me cuz i just love anime! :P

WTF?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on March 31, 2007, 01:04:38 PM
"siguro may tama ka nanaman no :P"i couldnt translate it to english because its still early and my brain doestn work too well in these times ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 01, 2007, 11:38:51 PM
"your crazyness is showing up again" just translated what kite said ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 04, 2007, 06:12:20 AM
I visited Ruri last week.

were you just answering a former question? o_O  Because if that's a lovely problem, I'll break you. :)

And...you said it so plainly.  Was I that boring??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 05:54:39 AM
hey hey dont break up because of that. some expressions cant be read, it has to be seen and heard...

sorry for interfering with your relation ship i just dont want to...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 06:18:29 AM
never interfere unless its needed thats the first rule in a relationship so dont interefere with their problems
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 06:20:39 AM
i know as much as i know thats why im apologizing
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 07:21:05 AM
if you know already then dont interfere
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 07:31:21 AM
yeah yeah  ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 07:37:15 AM
still think that cha still hates me what the hell should i do
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 07:40:37 AM
dunno talk to her she lives so close to your house

my problem how the hell will i confess? :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 07:45:28 AM
i have1 go to my house tomorrow and well discus it and bring the necessary materials the manga of boys be and dears a stick some crayons and a peice of paper and dont forget the windows xp cd
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 07:53:44 AM
whats up with the stck paper and crayons!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 07:56:44 AM
dont ask just bring it and make sure nobody follows you
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 07:58:14 AM
sorry dont have crayons
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 08:01:13 AM
then bring anything that can write
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 08:04:36 AM
why the hell we need that for!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 08:06:47 AM
i told you dont ask anymor its a sure way to confess
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 08:09:52 AM
ok ok i think ill do it(?)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 08:11:51 AM
just do it and dont forget the other necssary materials
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 08:17:56 AM
ok fine
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 05, 2007, 08:24:14 AM
if you understan then we have nothing more to discuss in this theared
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 05, 2007, 08:26:24 AM
agreed
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 09, 2007, 02:01:27 PM
cheezus-you guys are hardcore with the posts.

Anyways, i wouldn't break up over something like that -_-  guh.  I was just busting his chops.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 10, 2007, 08:58:22 PM
yeah i think i got the posting addictiveness disease
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 11, 2007, 11:51:28 PM
disease from being on vacation too long
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 12, 2007, 02:28:43 AM
lifes complicated when you know a girl hates you
can anybody help me with this? just because i said "i love you" to one of my friend she hates me now.....waah what should i do
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 12, 2007, 07:16:27 AM
thats cuz of what you usually do!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on April 13, 2007, 03:45:01 AM
lifes complicated when you know a girl hates you
can anybody help me with this? just because i said "i love you" to one of my friend she hates me now.....waah what should i do

You said 'I love you' to one of your friends and now a girl hates you?  Why?

I would think that's kind of silly
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 14, 2007, 02:48:01 AM
i have no idea but when i try to stike up a conversation with her she ignores me  and she stays away from me since that incedent :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 15, 2007, 12:30:26 AM
i have no idea but when i try to stike up a conversation with her she ignores me  and she stays away from me since that incedent :'(

i agree with you..

that girl kite's talking about is just dumb!!
what's so wrong with saying "i love you"??

kite : did she have a boyfriend when you confessed to her??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 15, 2007, 06:56:25 PM
lifes complicated when you know a girl hates you
can anybody help me with this? just because i said "i love you" to one of my friend she hates me now.....waah what should i do

You said 'I love you' to one of your friends and now a girl hates you?  Why?

I would think that's kind of silly
no really if you know what kite always do and probably youll know why....

*sigh* i always knew the answer so ill spit it out its because you always contradict what she says and you always irritate her also when she tries somethings well you also cotradict her...

so what do you think guys? even if its a joke its too much!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 16, 2007, 06:12:26 AM
so its his fault??

oh..i see
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 16, 2007, 07:17:32 PM
yes it is...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 17, 2007, 07:24:52 PM
note i just want to be friends with her again and i have no more fellings for her
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 19, 2007, 09:00:01 AM
ok then try to change youre approach!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 21, 2007, 02:02:36 AM
ok then try to change youre approach!

better try to speak normally..
if she has no intention of being friend again, just leave her ...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 22, 2007, 06:08:00 AM
ok then try to change youre approach!

better try to speak normally..
if she has no intention of being friend again, just leave her ...
what a harsh thing to say
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 23, 2007, 11:15:43 PM
gomen...

but think, if she doesnt want to, whats the point of being friend with her??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 24, 2007, 01:54:52 AM
kujosans right and might be wrong well at least let her know that you really wanna be her friend again
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 24, 2007, 03:37:54 AM
you know her longer kazenoken tell me the most efficient way
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 26, 2007, 04:07:16 AM
if you do wanna be her friend again, just tell her already, if you keep cowering here and not doing anything, nothing gets changed...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 27, 2007, 04:11:20 AM
you dont know what shes like
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 27, 2007, 08:46:30 AM
ok even if kujosan doesnt know her its the best approach
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on April 27, 2007, 10:05:18 PM
-_-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on April 29, 2007, 02:55:29 AM
see thats your problem
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on April 30, 2007, 06:34:06 AM
hehe.. i advised somebody to try on, but i couldnt say anything when she said "lets break up..."
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 01, 2007, 05:44:52 AM
why so suddenly?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on May 01, 2007, 06:14:48 AM
she wanted to break up, and i couldnt say anything..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 01, 2007, 06:28:10 AM
then ask her convince her  do anything to let her tell you
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on May 01, 2007, 05:32:06 PM
try torture ;D...joke...just ask her and if she doesnt say theres alway espionage...and i was just half joking a bout the torture thing....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 02, 2007, 11:46:29 PM
so it means youll do it
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on May 03, 2007, 03:05:30 AM
i'll give up about her...thanks anyway...

girls hard to understand sometimes...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 03, 2007, 04:59:14 AM
but what i can say is do what your heart tells you to ;)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on May 03, 2007, 11:07:00 AM
not your heart...do what you wanna do give up then its game-over and start with a new game, continue and you fight a really though battle, its your decision and yours alone and the heart wont really help much in this game its freewill and your decisions that will end this game....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 04, 2007, 05:46:45 AM
heck its the same
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: darkbleach05 on May 05, 2007, 01:26:27 AM
wao love problems XD~
its kinda hard thinking of it...
just thinking about the topic gives me a head ache
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on May 05, 2007, 01:33:11 AM
then dont think :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: darkbleach05 on May 05, 2007, 01:37:21 AM
hahah i can stop thinking though >,<
why is love to be cruel arggghhh ~_~
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on May 05, 2007, 05:38:03 AM
because thats the feeling of love....hurts you first before it starts to feel good.....and im not talking about sex >:(...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: darkbleach05 on May 05, 2007, 07:33:43 AM
yah dont worry kite i know,love really sucks at first...so many heartaches youll undergo and trials but after all of that sacrifices you have done,you be given a gift....a gift of love from your loved one XD
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on May 05, 2007, 07:37:05 AM
but some times its the other way around youll feel happiness at beggining and a crushing blow in the end
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 06, 2007, 05:28:35 AM
and thats how love works but if you found the right one for you itll be the most painful yet its also the best
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on May 06, 2007, 06:28:04 AM
its just like me.. happiness in the beginning but sucks in the end... ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on May 06, 2007, 06:47:38 AM
thought you said dont bring it up anymore  :-\
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on June 18, 2007, 09:20:46 PM
haha..
hmm. this thread hasn't been active for about a month...

hey, my lovey problem now is i and my closest friend like the same girl, what do i have to do??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on June 19, 2007, 06:03:07 PM
well in reality love is a competition
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 01, 2007, 06:42:42 AM
just eliminate the comptition then...and its sad being alone in here :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: weredragon on July 01, 2007, 10:33:46 AM
have a threesome
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Yukio on July 02, 2007, 05:28:07 PM
Well that is an interesting solution, weredragon. I am not really a person with advice since most of the time it gets people in worse trouble then they were before. lol
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 03, 2007, 04:37:09 AM
i think a threesome wont help althoug it will make for a nice experience
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on July 03, 2007, 07:19:27 PM
have a threesome

threesome love or what?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 06, 2007, 01:29:53 AM
theres only one threesome and its in $@# if its in love its called a love triangle you should already know that since youve experience it and it always put a smile in my face ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on July 11, 2007, 12:47:28 AM
well theres a LOT of threesomes ya know?? and why are we talking bout this here???

i cant forget her.......... even though i try i still cant...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 11, 2007, 03:40:52 AM
still its pretty funny ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on July 15, 2007, 05:21:01 PM
your OT
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 17, 2007, 02:13:29 AM
but its still funny ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on July 18, 2007, 11:47:07 PM
i still remember her why cant i forget im getting depressed again....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 19, 2007, 02:26:20 AM
dude we have the same problem :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on July 29, 2007, 05:12:41 PM
still im a bit relieved now cuz i think i found a girl i like
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on July 30, 2007, 01:12:58 PM
my problem is that i like 3 girls one of them is my friend the other is my classsmate and the final one is my first love, darn it what d hell should i do >:( ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 05, 2007, 05:46:58 AM
follow your heart its the best way
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 06, 2007, 02:38:58 AM
easier said than done
(time for plan b...b as in blow up the world)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 07, 2007, 07:49:16 PM
but its always the best way ^_^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 08, 2007, 12:42:13 PM
like you said im a stone, so how can i follow my heart....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 09, 2007, 12:05:59 AM
well not totally stone cuz you said that you like your classmate ^_^
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 09, 2007, 05:22:44 AM
its really annoying, waah i hate it when emotions leak out of me >:(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 10, 2007, 12:21:00 AM
im wondering if i should go and meet "her" or just leave her alone...
shes mad at me for some reason that i dont know.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on August 14, 2007, 10:33:19 AM
You guys are so fucking retarded, it drives me insane.  "First love".  How old are you, fourteen?  Have you kids ever even KISSED a girl?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 14, 2007, 02:32:32 PM
im only 16 -__-
anyway whats wrong with that -___-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waya475 on August 14, 2007, 02:34:01 PM
im only 16 -__-
anyway whats wrong with that -___-

It means you're a dumb kid who shouldn't even be worrying about girls for another few years yet.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 14, 2007, 02:36:40 PM
what about you -__-
anyway its hard not having a girlfriend(not that i care anyway)

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on August 14, 2007, 06:06:40 PM
Eh, no rush for me.  Dragons aren't supposed to date or marry early in life anyway.  I have the maturity of a nine-year old when it comes to romantic stuff.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 15, 2007, 05:28:11 AM
waya: yes i did and i already had done something....
but its still love and i love her very much... is anything wrong with that?

waffo:seriously???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on August 15, 2007, 06:21:11 AM
Er, why would that be so hard to believe?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 15, 2007, 06:44:02 AM
thats cuz almost everyone is a bit matured when it comes to it....(or so i think...)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on August 15, 2007, 01:20:40 PM
yeah sure tell that to a guy hwho hasnt done it yet -_-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 15, 2007, 08:39:28 PM
well its your choice that you dont have one yet so dont go complaining
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on August 19, 2007, 11:57:08 AM
Of course, because having sex means you are now a mature adult.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on August 20, 2007, 03:46:54 AM
nope its not like that trust me
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 06, 2007, 03:11:30 PM
yeah, i know 2 people who has done it but still immature like a kid
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 07, 2007, 01:51:38 AM
one of those two could possibly be me... -_-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 07, 2007, 11:55:00 PM
i didnt say that, you said it not me -_-

anyway people sometimes just use sex as a means to realieve stress or anxiety and etc, etc, etc...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 08, 2007, 06:10:14 AM
i know im guilty

and i could be used just for fun...

anyway can we get back on topic?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on September 08, 2007, 09:53:38 PM
hmm,, my friends here have a nice conversation i think (though it's a bit off topic)

my problem with love now, is i just got a girlfriend yesterday and i don't know what to do... :-[
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 09, 2007, 04:28:45 PM
wao kujosan dont treat it like a thing!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 11, 2007, 04:28:29 AM
hmm,, my friends here have a nice conversation i think (though it's a bit off topic)

my problem with love now, is i just got a girlfriend yesterday and i don't know what to do... :-[
...um... correct me if im wrong, but hows that a problem, i cant even get laid and your worrying about having a girlfriend :'(
P.S. i was just joking about the getting laid part, im planning to be a preist so it aint gonna work out with girls -__-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 12, 2007, 01:26:08 AM
yeah right! you don't even believe that there's a god
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 13, 2007, 12:09:23 PM
dont change the topic
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 13, 2007, 11:48:28 PM
you started it -_-

Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on September 16, 2007, 12:58:02 AM
hhaha..thanks for your concern...
really.. you're my bro..  ;D

about that.. i finally know how...  ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 16, 2007, 05:08:14 AM
even though we didnt really do anything...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 17, 2007, 04:40:48 AM
the power of comraderie....
i know this is off topic but is yanime still closing?
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 19, 2007, 12:57:46 AM
dont know ask motoko-chan

im unsure of my feelings about a girl please help me :'(
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 19, 2007, 02:09:54 AM
try school rumble's love test, the one harima tried ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 19, 2007, 02:11:10 AM
im serious
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 19, 2007, 02:56:16 AM
i dont really know how
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 19, 2007, 05:57:42 AM
i know so im asking the others
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Yukio on September 19, 2007, 02:04:01 PM
I have to agree with Waya on an earlier page. Of course, Waffo I have the same opinion about maturity in the romantic area as that is the least important part of anything. As long as you enjoy being around each other, who cares about that stuff.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 21, 2007, 04:02:58 AM
now you know kaze, you already got a comment from a guy with experience, although you also have experience(sexually i mean) ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 21, 2007, 05:01:05 AM
thanks yukio but still..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Ruri on September 21, 2007, 08:08:39 PM
im only 16 -__-
anyway whats wrong with that -___-

It means you're a dumb kid who shouldn't even be worrying about girls for another few years yet.

Awww, Waya you cutie pie!  :3  You're back for the short while that yanime is still up.

I don't know what the current love problem was but from what I read...someone didn't know what to do with a girlfriend?

Here are some suggestions:
-Kiss her; Hug her
-Go to a movie
-Go to dinner
-Cuddle, cuddle and cuddle.  Most girls like to cuddle
-Have a lengthy intellectual conversation

...and the list goes on..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 22, 2007, 01:39:52 AM
i think that was kujos problem ???
Dont really have a love life problem(at least for now) so dont really now what up so im just spamming away
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on September 22, 2007, 02:23:10 AM
ruri : wow, what a good idea...  ;D

thanks!!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 22, 2007, 05:14:06 AM
whats up with your forum look, its like your ready to go to battle
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on September 25, 2007, 09:08:05 AM
well anyways back to topic..
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 03, 2008, 09:58:20 PM
Eh, no rush for me.  Dragons aren't supposed to date or marry early in life anyway.  I have the maturity of a nine-year old when it comes to romantic stuff.

waffo:seriously???

Er, why would that be so hard to believe?

And that's what made me find out I'm asexy.  Good ol' Yanime still has its uses.

And I do realize that this is extremely random.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 08, 2008, 04:02:02 AM
asexy? ???
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 08, 2008, 06:30:20 AM
Yup, asexual.  I have feel no sexual attraction.  It's pretty odd, I'll admit.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 11, 2008, 12:15:57 AM
uhh... i think you have someone in common...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 11, 2008, 04:40:53 PM
Yeah, about 1% of the population.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 12, 2008, 04:00:18 AM
its someone in the forum -__-
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 13, 2008, 12:39:59 AM
who do you refer to??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 13, 2008, 06:51:43 AM
Don't just assume someone is.  Only they can know, obviously.  And bwah.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 15, 2008, 02:46:43 AM
oh he really is like that too and its kite
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 15, 2008, 06:25:12 AM
Just to clarify, there is a difference between being celibate and being asexual.  Celibate people have to resist the urge.  Asexual people don't have it or can't connect the feeling with sex.

By the way, it's pretty easy for asexuals to be priests, nuns, monks and all that stuff, though.  I feel romantic attraction though, so I'm out.

http://www.asexuality.org  (http://www.asexuality.org)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on February 19, 2008, 09:28:51 PM
wow..you seem to know a lot.. ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 19, 2008, 09:39:41 PM
Well, I sure hope I do.  It's what I am.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on February 24, 2008, 09:26:42 AM
hey i dont suppress it, i just cant find anybody interesting enough...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on February 26, 2008, 06:38:24 AM
Yup, asexual.  I have feel no sexual attraction.  It's pretty odd, I'll admit.

Interesting, can't say I've ever heard someone use it in a way that you just don't desire sexual relations before... only in a biological sense of certain species reproducing alone without the need of males and females.
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on February 26, 2008, 01:16:23 PM
Well, Yanime did always have a large number of unique people...  My old crappy dictionary doesn't have a good definition for asexual.  Ah well.  It'd be a little creepy to have a baby head sprout out of my arm or something, though. 
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on February 26, 2008, 05:13:38 PM
wow long time no see judau O_o

and i think youll find one waffo surely O_O
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on February 27, 2008, 01:57:19 PM
Well, Yanime did always have a large number of unique people...  My old crappy dictionary doesn't have a good definition for asexual.  Ah well.  It'd be a little creepy to have a baby head sprout out of my arm or something, though. 

Haha, check dictionary.com, it has the definition of both. :) And yes, we never had a shortage of interesting people.

wow long time no see judau O_o

Yeah, I'm going to attempt to come a bit more often, I wasn't aware so many people were posting in the last... 4 months or so. Haha...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on February 27, 2008, 05:50:02 PM
Glad you could come back Judau :)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: fightingmelee on February 27, 2008, 07:38:36 PM
interesting ppl huh? * thinks back in the past remebering some wierd and funny stuff*
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on February 29, 2008, 01:44:16 AM
im thinking yanime has too many interesting people
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: fightingmelee on February 29, 2008, 06:39:26 PM
pretty much. I remeber the uhh..... damiit o Karma Marriages. That was fun at the time
Even though I wasthe "priest" I never married anyone
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Aoshi101 on February 29, 2008, 09:33:11 PM
omg Karma Marriages. Oh jesus that brings back some memories  ::)
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on March 02, 2008, 05:29:42 PM
Which of course reminds me of Karma adoptions, of which Waya was very against.

Man, Peter returns and suddenly a few other oldies pop up too!  The power of the original members!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Judau on March 04, 2008, 07:40:32 AM
::)

My thoughts exactly. :)

Man, Peter returns and suddenly a few other oldies pop up too!  The power of the original members!

YOOOOOSH!!
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kazenoken on March 05, 2008, 01:50:18 AM
uhh.. power up??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on March 13, 2008, 05:20:38 AM
huh...isnt that a part from a song(-_-?) power up....
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: KujoSan on September 23, 2008, 12:33:54 AM
what are you talking about??
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Kite on September 23, 2008, 04:03:21 AM
i absolutely have no idea
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Tenchisama on September 23, 2008, 06:43:24 AM
this topic died a long time ago ;D
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: jenniferLOVESyou on May 14, 2009, 10:13:34 PM
Yup, asexual.  I have feel no sexual attraction.  It's pretty odd, I'll admit.

its cus you just havent met me yet =D
kiddinggg >.< yeahh... you totally wrote that over a year ago and i only saw it just now...
Title: Re: Lovey Problems
Post by: Waffo on May 14, 2009, 10:18:36 PM
Well, if you gave me those instant noodles you said you would all those years ago, it'd be different.  Must be malnutrition.

 :P